My boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time but I have talked to him telling him I want to wait and not have sex now. I want my first time to be perfect. I know most people say it wont be but I think I owe it to myself to try. I want it also to be with the right guy. But anyways we do make out and dry hump. I like to kiss and make out with him and ride him (we have clothes on) He gets up set because hes hard and gets blue balls Am I wrong for enjoying turning him on?
2006-11-30 12:35:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello no girl you aint wrong!! Having sex for the very first time is supposed to be a special thing. Its supposed to be perfect. Despite what other idiotic people say. Its not your fault you are human and you get turned on when you kiss your boytoy! Who gives a f*? Kudos to you for actually having some class and NOT spreading your legs to every sweet talking guy. We need more females like you who care about themselves and less skanks who spread disease. As for your man, if he cant respect it, ditch him. If it gets him made that he gets blue balls then tell him that he has a hand... he knows how to fix that problem!
2006-11-30 12:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may not want to lead him on, getting him to think you are going to have sex with him and then not. However, do not let him pressure you into anything you YOURSELF are not ready for. It is your decision to make and not anyone elses, that is the beauty of it. But what you are doing could be leading him on and giving him the wrong idea.
2006-11-30 12:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what I think. I am currently going through this, this girl i like and I do this all the time but she wont put out until she doesnt have a boyfriend. If its meant to work out he will understand. It doesnt hurt to do this stuff it keeps the relationship on its toes.
2006-11-30 12:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by HM2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all, your first time wont be perfect and there is no such thing as that... I think it is in the way of not finishing and think that if your serious about waiting then that means not to do any of that to tease him and to just be serious in the way of really saving yourself....
2006-11-30 12:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....That is so cool. Good for you for setting standards for yourself in waiting for a guy that respects you. I wish I did. No you're not wrong.... talk to him about what he wants, needs in yalls relationship/
2006-11-30 12:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by XxON3LOV3xX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong. You are headed for trouble. I cannot foretel the future, but you will not "have it perfect" if you keep going down this path. He may force you, or you may blow your intended standard. I see gib hurt for you both. Get parental councel--of another adult.
2006-11-30 12:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by mistrhistre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!
keep that up and he's going to take it!!!
you can't keep turning him on and not expect him to get mad
if I were your boyfriend,I'd go get it somewhere else,you never tease a man sexually,you are asking for trouble
2006-11-30 12:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by msalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with not wanting sex. experiment with sexual activities that don't involve full penetration, whatever you enjoy, but don't ever feel pressurised into going all the way.
2006-11-30 12:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by livingthelie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sending the wrong message...You say one thing and do another...You need to stop this, it may get you in trouble one day.
2006-11-30 12:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
think it is probably better to choose to have sex, or to not do anything with him,ecause it will only break your relationship if he is constantly getting mad at you
2006-11-30 12:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋