My best friend wants me to date her brother. I like him, I think he likes me but he's one of those "never had a girlfriend because he doesnt like to chase girls but not a party guy". He's an amazing guy, smart, funny, one of those guys that knows all the useless info but is good to have on your team on a board game lol... anyway, its been almost 2 years since i've liked him but the truth came out this past summer when I found out my best friend wants me to date him... I dont want to be the chaser but he wont chase what do I do? Should I tell him how I feel or wait it out?
2006-11-30 12:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this happened with my bff and my brother. She did the chasing and came across strong i think and it ended badly between them. everyone knew and it was kind of awkward. i could hang with her when my bro was around cause then i was just a third wheel. if you think you really like him just tell. but think it over alot first. its a strange siuation and very tricky
2006-11-30 12:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you are, the less the age diff makes. If you're 55, and he's 64, who cares? If you're 16 and he's 25, NO, NO, NO! Assuming you are at least in your 20s, try hanging out or maybe double-dating, but no funny business for a while. If after a few harmless social occasions you find you've really developed the hots for him, then you'd better make a careful decision. How valuable is your friendship with his sister? Will it survive if you and her bro do not last as an item? You might even go so far as to ask your friend if it wont' freak her out that you might be doing it with her brother, and how she would feel about you if you later were to break up with him. Good luck!
2016-05-23 06:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to leave that alone. I was in a similar situation and i made the mistake of dating him and the next thing i know my best friend and their whole family knew all of our business. I'm not saying that your guy is like this but just sit and think about it a little longer.
2006-11-30 12:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a really great way to lose a friend. She says now that she wants you to date him but are you ready to take that risk? She may get jealous of the relationship you have with him and that is all she wrote in your friendship book. Don't go there.
2006-11-30 12:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont look like a party girl to. WIth your glasses and retarded hair!LOL......HAhaHA
2006-12-02 03:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Brittany♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋