when a man that's outside your family comment on your body is that sexually harasment? the man is my mother's boyfriend he say things like[ your body's nice looking and your getting thick] at first i didn't think nothing of it! but then he's keeps on saying it over and over.i find it kind of weird for someone to say things about your body all the time it makes me feel dirty.maybe im over reacting so please tell me what your think.
2006-11-30 12:24:49 · 22 answers · asked by Danyelle J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have every right to feel violated. No he should not be saying these things to you. You need to tell your Mom and if your Mom doesn't do anything about it then you need to go to another family member or friend. This might be the beginning of some very bad sexual behavior on his part.
You want to be safe instead of sorry. This kind of talk is not acceptable. Tell someone right away. Good luck sweetie.
2006-11-30 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it say it when your mother is not around? Are there any other comments that may be more sexually related? He could be just commenting, or it could be something else that is not good. You really need to tell your mom about that. I wouldnt trust some one that is hitting on a girl way younger than him. He might be dangerous to you. Tell your mom he keeps telling you things and wont stop. Tell him to stop saying it and you do NOT like it.
DO NOT STAY SILENT! Even if its innocent, get it out in the open. If he didnt mean it in that manner, than he will appologize and stop immediately. If he did mean it in that way, he will only get worse or bolt. Tell your mom! And if she doesnt believe you, tell some one that will!
2006-11-30 12:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, yeah. He has no business commenting on your body and if he is looking at you like that, assuming you are not parading around in front of him half dressed... (he is a MAN, after all, and that is not wise and is asking for trouble) then he has it on his mind to do more than look. You need to talk to your mom about it and if she won't deal with it, perhaps a school counselor or a pastor in your community can offer some help with how to deal with it. Best wishes!!
2006-11-30 12:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by rie_helm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are so I'll assume your quite young
My advice to you is to tell your mom what he's saying and if she already knows then tell another adult such as an aunt or grandma
or any other adult you trust
Your moms boyfriend is showing the first signs of improper behavior and you can take it to the bank it will soon get physical
2006-11-30 12:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by oct2855 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First step, I'd tell your mom.
He is a dirt ball he is your moms boyfriend well that is so nasty you shod of told your mom the time you were feeling bad about that and now its not sexually harassment its just plain nasty!!!! Tell your mom and if that doesn't work then try and get it on tape and maybe she might believe you then!!!!!!!!
2006-11-30 12:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Irene V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep - that is a dirty old man and he wants you. Tell him to shut the f-en mouth or you'll kick his ba-lls up between his ears. And if he doesn't get the picture tell him that you are going to tell the school counselor about him as there are laws against pervs.
2006-11-30 12:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds creepy. Can you tell a man in the family, like an uncle or someone?
2006-11-30 12:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 19:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable, it needs to stop. It's inappropriate for this man to comment on your body. Have you told your mother? You definitely need to.
2006-11-30 12:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would say it's sexual harassment. Don't feel like you're overreacting, he really has no right to say things like that to you. I suggest you talk to a trusted adult about this.
2006-11-30 12:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋