Ok, I'm a sophomore in high school, 16 years old (just turned), and I honestly haven't had a boyfriend since 7th grade when i was 13. I haven't had a major crush since then, and really no guy has had any interest in me since then either. Is this normal to not have any attraction or attracting anyone for like 3 years? I wouldn't mind having a boyfriend, and the boyfriend in 7th grade wasn't really the *greatest*, and i've kind of been avoiding them because i dont want to be hurt like that again... any suggestions? help? has this happened to you?
2006-11-30 12:22:51 · 7 answers · asked by catchingfreak51 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in the same situation before I met my boyfriend. I didn't think it was worth all the pain and aggrivation so I pushed all the guys away. Plus all the guys at my school were losers any way. So I concentrated on school and when I wasn't looking, I ended up finding the greatest guy in the world! Just don't worry about it. Its totally normal. You just havent found anyone u wanna be with right now.
2006-11-30 12:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your fellow women can give you a better answer, about relation ships.every one has a [heart center] when it is [open] you feel love,when it is [ closed] you feel indifferent.
pain cant be avoided, you heart center will not break if your expectations are not met.
learn to meditate and read self improvement books---LEARN-WHO YOU ARE.learn to say every day [I LOVE MY SELF] 100% imperfections and all. your hang ups are just[hidden talents waiting to come out.
HAVE FUN...ENJOY LIFE...that is the easiest way to meet a boy.if he sees that you are smart, and pleasant to be with...you'll have to fight them off with a stick.
be you inner self, love others...and boy...friends will come in due time:)
when you find out who you are, you wiil find out who they are.
2006-12-02 07:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's happened to me but on a much larger scale it involved me a woman our two kids everything we built to be a family
and all of a sudden poof it was gone. she got everything of importance I left with nothing.
I got over it, you will too little girl. there is absolutely no reason for you to rush anything. you will know when its time. you have my word on that.
2006-11-30 20:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we arent "just starting puberty" retard
that happens at abt. 13 and a half
2006-11-30 20:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16, guys are just starting puberty.Give it time.
2006-11-30 20:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no rush.....finish school.....make loads of friends......have fun. You'll be fine......everything happens in its own time........when yours comes.....it will be a special surprise.
2006-11-30 20:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
good luck on every thing
2006-11-30 20:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋