he likes to move fast i don't know if i should i won't go too far but what do i do if he starts sumthing and i don't want him to? What if it goes to fast and i end up in bed? Help???!!!!!!!????
I DON'T WANT TO BE RUDE BUT I NEED HELP!
2006-11-30 12:00:58 · 8 answers · asked by edgey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello:
I've been with guys who have pressured me in the past, and trust me - it's really hard to say no. But ultimately that is what you have to do. If you are not comfortable with something, that is your decision. And if your guy loves you, than he has to respect you, and that means he will wait for you.
Be strong and stand up for yourself. When I am in a situation where things start to happen, there are a lot of signs and ways that I can stop something if I wanted to. The first would be being in that situation in the first place. It is possible to hang out with your guy without being in a sexual situation. Maybe you need to plan group events, I mean he's not going to try to get you in the sack when you are hanging out with 5 of your friends.
I hope this helps, and good luck!
2006-11-30 12:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those situations where you have to be diplomatic and ignore your feelings. PLEASE do not end up alone with this guy somewhere if you sense that he has a lack of self control. Rape is a tradgety that occurs too often. The women who are fictims never felt like the person was capable of doing what he ends up doing that is why you should be EXTRA cautious. Hurting his feelings should be the least of your worries. God Bless
2006-11-30 20:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him gently that even though you're really into him you're not ready yet and that you want it to be special i.e he needs to wait until you're ready so you can be a willing participant which is way more likely to add to the fireworks instead of a reluctant bystander.
2006-12-02 15:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please refrain urself from being tempted.. premarital sex is a grave sin and it can cause you a ruined future,, think of your future first.. bearing a child and to be a parent is not a game or a simple thing.. and the most important thing is, the guy doesn't really love you if he insists you to do such thing. he loves your body! not YOU at all.. better break him up.. and the one hu really dserves you will come up.. remember, love comes in an unexpected time of your life.. think twice..
2006-11-30 20:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by r.p. rowling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, tell him hes going to fast and you should slow down. Then when your ready, things will happen, if you still arent, it wont. Its all up to you.
2006-11-30 20:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by MX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him don't be a push over, it makes you seam easy and that's how guys take advantage of u
2006-11-30 20:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell himm nooo...if he doesnt respect that them leave him.....i bet he just wants to get some...i wouldnt eevn go with him
2006-11-30 20:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont rush into things at all..u might regret it!!
2006-11-30 20:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by ~honey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋