ok so ive lost weight hoping to get my X back and now all of a sudden im two skinny for him but when i was with him he slagged girlse down that was bigeer than me or the same size as me what more can i do he compliments me all the time and wants to be with me when there are other guys intrested but when the int he doesnt want to know and makes me feel so small i dont know what to do i really care for this guy my freinds and family are telling me to move on as he is giving me too many problemsand really bringing me down but he is makeing it very hard for me to do
2006-11-30 11:55:59 · 22 answers · asked by gema c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe hes looknig for an excuse and reason to not be with you. He may take pride in making you feel bad and knowing that you are trying to please him and feel flattered that you are working to make him happy and think he's more thna what he is. You can do better so move on and find someone else.
2006-11-30 12:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me something, IS THIS THE ONLY GUY ON PLANET EARTH?, no I think he isn't. You're not good enough for him but you're good enough for many other people. Why do care for somebody who doesn't care for you?, your wasting your time with this guy, you could be doing a lot of better things than just be thinking how to have him back, believe me he's not the only one on earth
2006-11-30 20:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good enough?girl,ur already BETTER than him.he's messing with ur mind.listen to ur friends/family and move on.a real man will make u feel proud to be urself,a loser will just mess u about,and make u feel bad about who u are.dont play that game,u can never win!no matter what u do,he'll try to get u to do the opposite.he feels powerful by making u jump thru hoops to win his attention.its a power trip for him.
2006-11-30 20:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lyn K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok honey, your first clue, "will I ever be good enough for him" NEVER feel THAT way!!!!! You never put yourself beneath someone else.... I am learning that the hard way! He is a jerk, sorry, but he is. Get over him and get on with life. Good luck!!!
2006-11-30 19:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont jump through hoops for anyone. You shouldnt have to change anything about yourself to be with him. You dont have a problem. He's the one with the problem.
You're better off without him.
2006-11-30 19:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by gloried 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what, next time you see him ask him "am I beautifull?", he'll say yes, then you ask, "Do you like me?", he'll say yes, then you ask, "Can we stop running, and will i ever have you?". Its alot and alot of courage has to be put in there but its worth it. This will stop the uestions and tell you wether you should move on or not.
2006-11-30 20:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all drop him. Your beautiful the way you are. If a guy doesn't want a true beauty the way she is he's an a**hole. Find someone better and someone who loves you for who you are.
2006-11-30 19:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mary H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to be strong. i am sure you look beautiful just the way you are, and if he cant except that than he isnt worth it. dont let any man bring you down! good luck
2006-11-30 19:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a jerk. u don't deserve a guy whose always bringing you down. you shouldn't have to change for a guy. you should just find a guy that u like a lot, and who likes you bak, just the way you are. so, just leave this guy. he doesn't deserve someone like you.
2006-11-30 20:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard u can keep in your heart a little place for him but u need to get over him....
2006-11-30 19:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tess c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋