Should I do it?

Question

ive been considering suicide the past week, and i have my reasons. im drifting away from my friends and family, and my life has been spiraling downward for about a year now. if you can give me three good reasons, i wont do it. and i dont want to hear the typical its stupid, or its not worth it. i want good answers.

Answer 1

1. There is so much to live for, tomorrow your life could turn around, you could meet that one person who makes you weak at the knees and who you could end up spending the rest of your life with, but if your gone, you will never find out.
2. Suicide is selfish and easy, it is not a solution it is a firey end to a life that could have been turned around had you stayed one moment longer.
3. It hurts everyone who ever knew you or loved you, especially your family, who no matter how far you've drifted from will love you no matter what. Thats the beauty of having family, no matter what you may think they really truely love you and if nothing else you should want to live each day in persuit of mending your broken connection, because it can and given time, will be mended. No life is too far gone that it can't be mended.

When we fall, we get back up, its human nature. Sometimes we may need some help but we all stand again. We come away with scrapes and a broken bone or two but given time, they heal and become just another mark that shows we have overcome. When you hit a rough patch of road or go over a pothole, you don't stop do you? You keep on going, and before you know it you have reached your destination and your whole life is there waiting. One more day, one more fall, one more helping hand, one more healed scar, and a whole entire life ahead...go live it.

Answer 2

1. Satan isnt exactly the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
2. There are so many cool things out in this world!! Go exploring! Experience new places and start fresh. You could meet very special friends out there.
3. Someone loves you. If its your family or your friends you are drifting from, deep down inside they love you. And they would miss you soo much if you left them.
4. Kids in third world countries should be the only ones with the reasons to suicide. And even then they dont. Even with no food or no family or no friends. They still have hope.
And so do you. You still have hope in you. So go out in the world. Just forget about and ignore your traumas for one day. Do something rare and fun. Be positive. After this I gaurantee you will find so many reasons to live.

Answer 3

Life always has its ups and downs so you're always going to have some struggles. Suicide isn't the answer, what's going on with you that you feel so depressed? Talk to you friends and family I'm sure you guys can work things out and you'll realize that you miss them and your life. And just set goals to make your life better. I may not be giving you reasons not to do it but those are suggestions to make it better. Think of the people that you'd be hurting if you were gone, think about how you're feeling now, do you really want your family to feel that way too? You may not be feeling like they care but if you talk to them and tell them how you're feeling they will show you how much they really do. Just talk to your family and friends. Your life can get better if you help it.

Answer 4

I recommend reading Paolo Coehlo's book, Veronica decides to die. You should be able to find your answers in there. I've been through that path before, and to be honest there isn't a great reason for living but there isn't even one good reason to die. Think about it, you are being selfish not even considering your friends, family or anyone affected by your death. Living is fighting and if you think about it you'll see that life isn't great, but you can do things to make it better. If you feel like you are drifting apart from everything try changing your attitude, changing your lifestyle, changing your location, anything. There are small things in life you need to enjoy and focus on, the big things you cant control are sometimes, if not always, pointless.

Answer 5

First off, I can tell you right now you're not going to do it. People who actually see suicide as an answer come to a state of peace before they do and don't go on about it. I feel you're just looking for the attention.

But 3 good reasons huh??

1- You'll go to Hell which is worse than what you're experiencing on earth.
2- You'll hurt the ones you love because they will feel betrayed that you couldn't talk to them.
3- If you hold on one more day, who knows who you will meet or what event will change your life. Tomorrow everything could change.

Good luck!!

Answer 6

1. look at the life you have left to make a change, it could be you doing something wrong that can be fixed.
2. everything you've been through, good and bad times will all just go to waste.
3. who's gonna clean up the mess?

but seriously, get over it.
you don't need family or friends anyway, especially ones letting your life a complete misery.
you'll make new friends and a better new family.

suicide is happening way too much, it's old news now.
the world would eventually kill itself off anyway so you'd just be an extra one of the early birds.

think of what jigsaw would say... "Live or die, make your choice."
and picture something deadly.
i have no idea why you have to think of that but gosh it makes me chuckle!
i love that man <333!!
xxxx

Answer 7

one you are depressed and if you are gonna commit suicide you would not take time to write a question and wait for answers what you need to do is get a friend if none call a local help line and work thru this cause you wanna see the sun rise again other wise go to a secluded place with a sharp knife slice lower rest wait for blood to drain sounds cold well putting your family thru the grief of seeing you in a coffin is just as cold

Answer 8

1. just because ur drifting away from friends and family does not mean doing sucide things can change

2. like everybody says u can really hurt ur loved ones deep down just try and change u would never want to commit sucide

3. years from now ur life can change maybe even months from now life is about waiting u always have to wait

Answer 9

1. even though your family and friends dont show how they love you, they do so much.
2. you are how old? of young, you still have your whole life ahead of you, dont make that go away.
3. suicide isnt the answer to problems, seeking help would do it, even if you dont want it.
please get help quick because i dont want to hear on the news that some person killed himself, and then i would feel bad that i didnt do a good of enough job to help you.

Answer 10

All I can say that its your familys loss. If you are driffting away from your family you can always drift back. Better things are going to happen for you and suicide isnt the answer. Find some one that can help you.