went out with a girl friday. Had fun, but i screwed the date up a little. She still told me to call her but i was definately more interested than she was. I called her sun,left a message, tues no answer and tonite and left a message. No phone returns but just sent a text message saying sorry i havent called back i have been really busy with school. Should i send her a text back? Or think she may call me back sometime? I was thinking of making a joke on the text back then saying call me when your not busy. She is a awesome girl but one that is in high demand and kind of likes bad boys. Im a genuine nice guy, but do fun stuff that makes me seem a little dangerous. I need to keep an allure of nondesperation with her, so the text, or just wait now. I was thinking she wasnt interested in me but i would think she wouldnt have sent the text if she wasnt. I would appreciate the advice greatly. Help me out guys!
2006-11-30 11:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by Italian Tiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need help from guys. .You need help from females... and I am just the one!
DO NOT CALL. Text her back simply: "no prob." (and wait a full day to do it)
Everyone wants what they can't have. You have made it clear that you are interested more than once. You are also responding simply to let her know you got her message.
NO woman is going to let a guy go if she is interested in him. You have left the door open for her to call you. Be cool. You are now the spider waiting for the fly.
2006-11-30 11:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure she likes you even though your not a "bad boy". She probably wouldn't have wen tout with you to begin with if she wasn't interested at all. More than likely it was something she found out on the date to be unappealing or you may lack something other than the "bad boy" thing she may like. It's possible she may have been really busy but the time ti took to text you she couldv'e called to tell you shes been really busy but maybe don't know how to tell oyu ni a nice way shes not interested in you. If a female see that a guy is a genuine nice guy and someone she can be with she wouldn't pass him up and would make it known since great guys are hard to come by.
2006-11-30 11:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her and let her know that you would like to see her for a second date and make a date. If you wait to hear from her again, some other is asking her out and you be out. Go for the relationship.
2006-11-30 11:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I say wait. Don't text her back.
A lot of ppl use text messaging as a way to chicken out of dealing with things. She could have called you by now.
Don't call or text her, let her come to you if she is sincere.
2006-11-30 11:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. Don't beg her, cause girls like when guys are anxious to talk to them, so just wait if she doesn't phone you then let her go. There are many girls out there. She's not the only one on the planet
2006-11-30 11:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when dealing with women..it is usually best to let them approach you..when she is ready, she will respond..it is hard to know at this point, but depending on HOW you blew it on the date, may be the reason for the cold shoulder..the ball is in her court..back off and pray you didn't do heavy damage...
good luck..
2006-11-30 15:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I am not a guy but will tell you that I would just text back and say thanks....hope to hear from you when things quiet down...enjoyed our time together....period....then back off and see what happens....don't contact her again..the ball is in her court...if you don't hear back in a week or so...move on....good luck
2006-11-30 11:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone with cancer goes thru a whole ordeal from the treatments and also dealing with the fact that your live might end. It could well be that he prefers to struggle with this on his own also the treatment might cause him to suffer from mood swings. I would say give him some space.
2016-05-23 06:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try one more time, -if she don't respond after a week than try again, if no response, maybe wait a couple weeks or even a month & try again-don't bug her too much.-good luck
2006-11-30 12:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't text her, wait - see what she does next. Good luck.
2006-11-30 11:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋