I know most girls are very concerned about thier weight...how do guys really see it? what is an ideal weight for a women, and what is too big?! Guys..any suggestions?
2006-11-30 11:44:08 · 8 answers · asked by *Sarah* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most girls are fat today - and biatches too!
2006-11-30 11:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Though the answer varies across cultures and individual tastes, most men would prefer women be of a healthy weight. There is a calculator at http://www.fitnessonline.com/tools/idealweight/, among other places. Most guys would find a weight in this range most attractive. Probably most guys would prefer the lower end of the range, but anything below the range is bad.
The real factor that transcends cultures is hips:waist ratio. All guys find a woman most attractive at a 3:2 ratio, even men from tribes in the Amazon that have had no contact with or influence by media.
I suspect the reason behind all of this is evolutionary - men want women to have enough body fat to be fertile, but also want them to be physically fit enough to protect and feed a baby. (running/fighting/hunting etc)
2006-11-30 19:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Edward M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly i don't really have much of an issue until you're talking like much over 300 because it starts to get to a place where it's just there and it's not curvaceous or anything anymore, legs are just as big, you get where I'm going with this. you can sort of pull it off if you're really tall though i guess. the ideal for me would be around half of that though; i can live with 120, 130.
it really depends on the girl though; i mean if she's 5' 3" 120 is nice and thick, and 80 or 90 may be a bit bony, which isn't attractive either. if she's more my own height, like 6' or more, you can get away with like 200, though that would still be fat, legally i guess, it'll work for me. but that girl would be a bit thin at 120, for my tastes anyway.
2006-11-30 19:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay there is a girl for every guy. dont worry about what guys think. just worry about what you think of yourslef. in the end a guy will have more respect for you and like you more if you have confidence in yourslef. so just like who you are and dont worry about anyone else. when mr.right comes along he won't care how much you weigh. so just be you. now unless you feel that you are unhealthy then okay go ahead and loose weight if you feel you should but all im sayin is that there is nothing wrong with being "thick" cuz i am and i know i look good and as long as you feel that way about yourslef it doesn't matter what any guy thinks.
2006-11-30 19:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by Omega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can care less about the number. Most guys have no clue what they weigh. It's more about appearance, as long as the girl is still in proportion and not sticking out all over. Too big is lots of rolls of fat...even worse pale flabby fat.
2006-11-30 19:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls that are a 4 dress size.
2006-11-30 19:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont listen to guy down below..just be average not to skinny not to fat!
2006-11-30 19:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be anything..... just be who you are.
2006-11-30 19:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by QueenChristine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋