Help-I have had 3 guys calling me on and off for a while...They irritate me mostly when they call-I enjoy talking to them for awhile then they get on my nerves or we disagree-but when they stop calling...I find myself calling them and bein like 'what up?
HELP please...suggestions-advice-inspiration...I just need to find an answer that will help me work this situation out for myself. :)
2006-11-30 11:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm saying how can I get over the fact that I just want what I can't have...like what to do once I acknowlege that...?
2006-11-30 11:41:03 · update #1
SCOTT- you're exactly right too- but what am I supposed to do to stop liking the attention?
2006-11-30 11:52:13 · update #2
How about you try to find a guy that fits what you imagine in a boyfriend? Because it sounds like you want these guys to change to fit the image you have set up. They won't and you'll end up resenting them for it if you pursue a relationship.
Why waste time settling for less? Go and find your prince, he's out there if you choose to go look and stop beating around the bush with these other three guys.
2006-11-30 11:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know it's human nature. There was this really swell guy when I was in high school and he adored me. I'd only go out with him on Sunday afternoons, and we never even kissed. But he kept on calling. I ended up marrying someone who turned out not to be the best husband, but he is the father of my children, so I can't down him too much though we are no longer married. You know, there are no set rules in life, except the Golden Rule, and we just have to find our own way. Trust your heart or gut and trust in the Lord. If you get that little sick feeling in your belly, I believe it is the spirit telling us to watch out. You'll be fine. Good luck.
2006-11-30 11:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you know perfectly well that you can have all three of them, but you are addicted to the attention. I know girls like that who call up guys just to get their attention and make them feel secure in that they can have them if they want. Alternate terms for a girl like this are: attention-who-re and tease
Hot girls are notorious for this type of behavior, and I have had personal (bad) experience with them. With these girls, if you call them they always try to act busy and don't want to talk, but then just when you have given up on them and you think they don't like you at all they call you up and give you another little sliver of hope... just so they can boost their own egos. It is a game to make themselves feel good. If the guy starts to ignore them, they go crazy because someone has actually sorta rejected them, and they can't handle that because they are not used to it.
2006-11-30 11:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by scottrc5391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to make yourself see what you have. When you get slightly irked, just think how you feel when you dont have them. I totally understand how you feel, I just got to gether with this guy a week ago and now I'm breaking up with him because I know I could have him back, and I thought I'd never get him. Its just a girls instinct, grab it when its new while you still can, a new dress is only fun to wear once( old mama's tale)
2006-11-30 11:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie*pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the nerve to disagree with the pretty pretty princess!!! How dare them!
My advice...don't talk to them at all , you are wasting precious minutes of their life they can never get back...
2006-11-30 11:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU CAN HAVE IT IF YOU WANT IT YOU DONT LIKE BEING ALONE OR WITH OUT A GUY SEEMS LIKE YOU LIKE THE ATTENTION MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.
2006-11-30 11:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Robin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people go after things that they can't get.
2006-11-30 11:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by talk_to_the_hand!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SRY BUT I REALLY DONT NO WAT UR ASKING..
2006-11-30 11:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Pretty Eyes*~<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋