You are getting "BLAMED"...FOR SOMETHING that is NOT your fault...but this person blames, and blames, and is mean...to get her ATTENTION??? it is not fair...But she does it a lot???!!!
2006-11-30 11:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It's best not to try to do anything about it. Your relatives know this person, and chances are it's not the first time she's done something like this. They'll know whether or not to believe her.
2006-11-30 12:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Anonymous letters are childish and what's the point? If the letter is to point a finger at someone else, then it will be mean and she'll still figure it came from you. If the letter is merely to sate facts that would clear you, then she'll know it is from you. Both ways you look ridiculous. Your actions speak louder than words. If you behave well and are nice to her whenever you're in her presence, she will eventually become a friend and start defending you without prompting. If this person is "constantly blaming" you for doing things, she must have a reason for doubting your integrity. Are you always involved in some way in the events that happened. You know the old saying "You're known by the company you keep". If bad things happen in the crowd you're running with, maybe it appears that you are approving of it anyway. Might as well be doing it for all she cares, and she may be right. Time to go face to face and ask her why she thinks you did ...."whatever"...but do it calmly and sincerely. You may find that she was given some wrong information by a third person who is a troublemaker.
2006-11-30 11:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to be anonymous. Put your name to the letter. Ask or tell her point blank. If she no longer wants to talk to you because of it, so much the better. You would have gotten rid of the thorn by your side.
2006-11-30 12:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good will an anonymous letter do? You will look guilty, as you are trying to deceive her. Write a letter explaining the circumstances and SIGN it. Stand up for yourself.
2006-11-30 11:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why not simply confront her with the issue? An anonimous letter just sounds childish
2006-11-30 11:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by CJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what cj said!
2006-11-30 11:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋