my best friend(a guy) ask me to be his gf..and just now i said to him(via sms) that he's the best guy that ever appear in my life and i really dont want to lose him but i'm ready for love relationship yet...
and he said that he always ready for me and will wait for my answer and he doesnt want to lose me too.what should i do?
2006-11-30 11:15:12 · 9 answers · asked by j's d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well hon, you have to follow your heart. Don't let anyone push you into something you're not ready for. Only you can tell when you're ready, and if he really wants you to be his girlfriend, he will wait patiently for you and respect your feelings. Trust yourself. Always, always, always.
2006-11-30 11:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep being friends. He was putting it out there and you said no and he said he'll wait and doesn't want to lose the friendship.
Take that at face value, as he's hopefully taking you at face value when you say you're not ready. If you both really value the freindship everything will be fine.
Remember, it probably took a lot of courage for him to say that to you. When you see him again I suggest you acknowledge again the communication, reaffirm that you really value the relationship and that you aren't ready for it to progress.
Good luck!
2006-11-30 19:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready. Don't be pressured into doing something you are not ready for. If he is the right one then he will wait.
2006-11-30 19:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him in a boyfriend sort of way, give it a chance. It could be something wonderful. If you really just have friend feelings for him, stick with what you told him.
2006-11-30 19:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love him?hes your best friend so you should know him inside out....think about it coz like what you said he will wait for your answer...go on girl give yourselves a chance to experience what love is....you'll never know unless you try..dont worry if it wont turn out as expected coz its part of life....go on with the flow....as we grow we will learn from our mistakes....go on say yes and enjoy every moment....
2006-11-30 19:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by maricor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fine the way that you are... he said that hes waiting for u so hes waiting for u!
all that means is that he accepts your decisions and likes (or loves) you alot and will do alot to get you...
thats a good thing by the way...
2006-11-30 19:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date him then go for it..if you dont and he is your true friend then he will understand.
2006-11-30 19:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. We can't tell you...it's for you decide...it's your life.
2006-11-30 19:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go where your heart beats!!!
2006-11-30 19:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by summerglow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋