He always wants to throw paper balls at me and be stupid. we always use to talk all the time but now a days i feel like he is ignoring me. I always feel like his looking at me in class. but i feel like im really into him and i really hope he is into me. but how should i talk to him more? i never se him. i only see him 3 and 4 block and he sits behind me. =/ we talk but i want to talk to him more. i was thinking aout asking him out but i would feel so akward. theres just never a "good" time to talk to him. he is such a smart guy. and i reallllyyy like that. he is not so popular and i think i could win him over, but i cant seem to tell myself that i should ask him to the movies. Also the rejection! i know evryone goes through it but. ahh!!!!!!!
i need help
and advice.
thanks!!!!!!!
2006-11-30 11:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you guys talked before i wouldnt be so afraid to come out and take the first step, try texting him and see what hes doing over the weekend you dont have to come out and "ask him out" just see what hes doing get him talking to you again and see what happends thats my advice
2006-11-30 11:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by iPlayAcousticguitar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Be urself,be confident,Develop a good friendship with him,if ur good in studies,help him in his project works,studies, completing assignment,by helping him he will understand that u really cares for him.Talk to him,ask him for a date.if he really likes u ,he will come with u.Just remember u can never force anyone to love.Love is like a feeling.Forcable Love never works in life and cause tensions in near future.Good Luck,I hope u get ur loved one in ur life.Be happy always
2006-12-01 02:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by friend_simple_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually what you can do is that, you need not ask him out alone. But what you can do is that you can ask some of your friends together with you, and ask him. "Hey I and (name of friends) are going to watch (Movie name), care to join us?" or "Hey my friends has invited some of us to watch movie together, care to join?"
You can use excuses like a group want to ask him out, but actually you just want him out so you can talk to him.
Another excuse which you can use, is asking him how to do a certain problem in your homework. (Another form of excuse)
However more importantly, do not approach him as you want him to be yours but rather approach him as you want to be his good friend. Ensure that he is comfortable and then ask him if he was or still is interested in you. Rejection in this case is still possible but hey! Both of you are still close friends. And both of you will bond together stronger as friends, if you handle your rejection with care.
I hope that helps. Message me if you have other questions yah?
Cheers!
2006-11-30 19:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he wants to go to the movies with you and some friends.
2006-11-30 19:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his best friend out and he'll sure start noticing you.
Talk to him whenever you can and at the end of the day even if he says no...........what's the big deal. Everyone must have been rejected at some point or other and believe me its not end of the world.
2006-12-04 04:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is never a good time to ask someone out until they actually like u. If your not ready to ask then just talk to him more no matter diffcult it is. good luck
2006-11-30 19:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to ice cream parlor....if he's smart enough he should be able to pick up the hint...if he still doesnt gets it just tell him.......after all it doesnt matter who proposes first.....its your good intension that counts!!! ( Matlab pyar mein bolnay wala nahi...bolnay walay ki niyat aur uska dil dekha jata hai!!!)good luck........my best wishes with you!!!
2006-11-30 20:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him out on a date you never know what he might say, and if he rejects you, you can still be freindz w\=with him
2006-11-30 19:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by buckfever_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to go to the movies with you and some friends...
2006-11-30 20:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to the movies and see what he says ...
2006-12-04 02:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋