How strong is jelousy......(girlz only)?

Question

ok yada yada, she wants just freinds yada yada, doesnt want to be wiht me but doesnt want any other girl to be wiht me so if she cant get anyone, or if she makes up her mind, she can have me -_-. but girlz.....how strong is jealousy.........and how often does it work and how often does it tear freindships appart....thx any additional info would help alot :) thanks

Answer 1

that's a huge gamble. if you get with another girl in her presence, you may just send her the message that you no longer have an interest in her, and she'll turn off any innate feelings she may have about you and focus on some other guy who she knows she stands a good chance with. you're her sure thing, but only if you remain so. she'll stay in your life with that sexual tension until you force her hand. make her choose. how long can you stand by as her toy, up on the shelf until she decides to take you down and play with you? if she's never going to do that, you need to know now, so that you can have a chance at finding a girl that will return your affections and attention and attraction. she's not the only one out there, but be ready to lose her if you play the jealousy card. it can work EITHER way.

Answer 2

jealousy is a BIG GREEN UGLY MONSTER THAT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE. If it is affecting you in a way that you can't do anything or go anywhere, have friends of the opposite sex, with no fear of being accused of sleeping with someone, then things may work. Watch for the signs. I have NO time in my life for the monster.

Answer 3

It is very strong, as soon as we see another girl with a guy we sorta like it causes us to realize all of a sudden that we did like that guy we weren't sure about. But as soon as the compitition is gone we aren't so sure about it anymore. Its because we only want what we can't have, when we know we can have you then you have lost all of your appeal, but as soon as another girl comes onto the picture and we can't have you anymore then we get jelouse and all of a sudden want you.

Answer 4

Jealousy is a disease and not good at all. If she doesn't want you but doesn't want to see you with anyone then you got to make a choice. And friends should be honest with each other.

Answer 5

Depends on how much she likes you... Tell her you are going out on a date and see how she reacts. She may freak but then you can tell her that you have been waiting 4 her and she don't seem to be interested. So what is the deal?

Answer 6

Jealousy is very strong.It causes people to become psychotic,controlling,and sometimes suicidal.I know because I used to have a bad jealous spirit in me.Its very hard to stop the effect it can have on you.

Answer 7

sometimes strong sumtomes just a thing but most of the times he to good for other people and u dont c him in that way but jelousy is not jus a gurl thing its jus we choose to show it more than guys do

Answer 8

me and my hubby are married today bc i couldn't stand to see him with another woman, but for me to realize i needed to make a descision, it took me seeing him with other women, well not like that , but showing a interest and not so much to me, showing me that he could get other girls too....u know......... i am a type of person who doesn't try to stand in the way if i just want to be friends though, so i had to up my rank in his life to have a say.

Answer 9

Jealousy is the worst thing ever...nearly all girls are jealous of each other...they always compete and bit ch...this girl sounds like trouble keep away from her she will mess with your mind.

Answer 10

jelousy is pretty strong. id say about 10. it's strong enough for a man but made for a woman. jelousy could probably lift a 10 ton car, but ive never seen jelousy do it, ive only heard from people who saw jelousy do it.