well i met this really nice guy and we have started talking...i asked him when we first started talking if he was single he said he was going throguh a break up....then i aske dhim about her he said since he was 18 they have been dating on and off...now he is 23 and i dont think they are really goi9ng to break up i think they are going to just get back together ....i mean to go on and off for about 5 years they must have something right?should i continue talking to him or look for someone else?
2006-11-30 11:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep him on the back burner but no I would say don't concentrate too much on him. The worst thing you could do is become really interested in him and then not have it work out.
2006-11-30 11:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up, understand precisely what you mean. I also have a similar problem conversing to women. have no longer something to talk approximately with them? in case your merely having a communique, merely act regular, talk such as you will with a woman, (without the 'female' touch XD,) and ask regular 'questions' like; 'the way you doing' and 'what you doing', if there doing something and you decide directly to talk. If a men involved they are going to respond and talk decrease back. (yet men would be extra 'secretive', you will see what I mean.) do no longer anticipate issues to alter over night. you will get extra confident with time, men is often extra open to you in case you talk over with them, do merely no longer bypass chasing them around, begging to talk. (until eventually your attempting to 'get in there', yet do no longer do this for the period of a desperate way.) merely if the time comes or he's on my own, bypass as much as him and say hi.. so on etc. desire that helped. solid luck. =)
2016-10-04 14:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you continue to talk to him then you are probably setting yourself up for disappointment. You are getting all the warning signs now. They have been going through this for years...why would it change now? There are other fish in the sea. Leave it alone now before you subject yourself to any unnecessary pain.
2006-11-30 11:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend, a old saying one day Mr.right will come along just wait. don't Rush into Boy friend girl thing just take your time go shopping travel do the thing you love to do. when you find a boy friend the first thing on your mind is he cheating where is he. you have pliant of time to worry about what your future love will be doing.you don't have a boy friend just enjoy life meet peoples
2006-11-30 11:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they maybe about to break up --- people change in 5 years and they may have grown apart --- look at married couples (me for instance) married 30 years and it ended just like that --- have only spoken once in 3 years
2006-11-30 11:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop communications. look for someone else. your heart is telling you that he is not completely broken up and that he's gonna get back with her....trust your intuition.
2006-11-30 11:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by mich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking. he probly needs a friend atleast. if they're really over he might ask you out.
2006-11-30 11:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by jEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't get too involved, watch him for a little bit and then make your decision. good luck
2006-11-30 11:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by summerglow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to him just don't expect anything else other than just friends.
2006-11-30 11:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for someone else...you deserve better
2006-11-30 11:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by j's d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋