2006-11-30 10:52:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront your friend about the situation first but not in an ignorant way. Be polite. If she is really your friend then she will confess the truth. However you should take the problem out with your boyfriend. Your feelings are normally right. You don't just have them for know reason at all. I think that you deserve better. There are more men and more people you can find with qualities as a friend.
2006-11-30 10:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure, don't jump the gun it may not be what you think, these 2 people are close to you, talk to the boyfriend first ask him what he thinks about your best friend, tell him she has been acting strange lately and you are wondering whats up, his answer should be a clue, say the same about the man to the friend.
2006-11-30 18:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to be totally honest with yourself do you really want to know? You'll be very hurt and angry if he has cheated on you and if its still continuing what do you want to do about it? Further if he denies it you will always be suspecious. Unless he tell you the truth. Make sure that you can handle this crises. I hope that no children are involved, and if they are I'd suggest counselling marriage can be repaired. DH cheated on me 3 yrs ago, we've gone through a series of counselling sessions, two years sepeartions and decided to work completely on our marraige and I'm glad we did.
2006-11-30 18:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Tell him why you think something is out of line. Don't bother asking her, because it won't make any difference what she says. If he admits it, then it's up to the two of you to decide what to do about it. What you are doing is presenting class act, and behaving in a mature manner. If you start a catfight with her, he'll just think it's funny, so keep this between you and your man.
2006-11-30 18:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them. Trust is built. Why do you 'think' they
are cheating. Men can have friends of the
opposite sex. My husband has many close
friends. I'm his best friend. Some are men, some
women.
One person cannot meet one's every need.
2006-11-30 18:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by vancouverdew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it's true, next time you have sex turn down the lights. tell him you want to get kinky. Put some chunky peanut butter on his balls and tell him it's whipped cream that you are going to lick off of him. Then bring the dog into the room and watch him take a bite out of crime.
2006-11-30 18:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey if i were you i would ask him if there is anytihng that he want to talk about and then kinda observe his mood everyday like if he's nervuos and then tell him what you are feeling. or if this doesen't help then umm call cheaters or i think it was eye for an eye. yeah call them they wiil satlk him without him knowing for about 7 days and they'll have it on video tape and they will be there with you on the day you confront him.
2006-11-30 18:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shyshy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Talk to him, find out how he feels about your relationship first and then you will know where you stand. That way you can decide if this is the person you want to be with.
2006-11-30 18:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you accuse and confront them, get proof! Follow him, check his phone bills/e-mails, whatever it takes. You don't want to accuse them if they're, say, planning a big surprise party FOR YOU! But your gut is telling something....you need to act on it.
2006-11-30 18:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a free trip to Chicago.
Jerry Springer time!
2006-11-30 18:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋