What in the world should I do with this girl?

Question

Hey, I have a little issue I'm not sure how to deal with. A friend of mine has introduced me to one of her friends, I realize that girls do love to go on and on with the phone. Problem is, I'm a guy. I get on the phone, get the point across, and hang up. Normally, that is. I haven't been in a relationship for about a year, and I realize that I'm going to have to get used to those all-night phone conversations again. I find it difficult to find things to talk about endlessly, and it gets uncomfortable to me. So my question is, what in the world does SHE want to talk about? Help me out ladies........
:-),
Dave

Answer 1

I have guys that don't want to talk on the phone with me. I can tell. She should be able to tell. Tell her nicely that you really don't like to talk on the phone for long periods of time with anyone. Your just not a phone person. If you both give you should both be happier. Just because you are in a relationship or want to be in a relationship with her doesn't mean that she should always get her way. She maybe don't even know you don't like talking on the phone. While you are on the phone there are lots of things to talk about. What did you do yesterday? today? what are you doing tomorrow? What does she want for Christmas? What does she do for Christmas? What did she do yesterday? today? what is she doing tomorrow? What does she do at Christmas time? What do you do? What was her best Christmas? worst? What about you best and worse Christmas? The list is endless. Talk about the things that interest both of you. If she is doing all of the talking you will get bored with that pretty quickly! :-) Also I have a brother that doesn't answer the phone always but he will reply right back to me by texting me. You could do this. He isn't always somewhere where he can talk for whatever reason but we can still make plans by texting. If she wanted to meet you somewhere you could make your plans by texting each other. I hope something that I have wrote here will help you. I don't understand guys not liking to talk on the phone but I know that it happens. I love to talk on the phone!! Have a good day!

Answer 2

Hey Dave, do what your gut tells you. You don't have to suffer talking to someone. She isn't the girl for you if you don't feel comfortable and the conversation doesn't flow. Find someone who shares or interests.

Answer 3

if your on the phone for hours with her, you tell us...

I think it's real cute that I have this wonderful guy I met this year, he doesn't like emails,
doesn't like to leave messages
,doesn't like talking on the phone much,
but every time he calls,
we talk till the phone dies & he's so sweet,
he says he's never talked on the phone so much to a girl...



we never run out of conversation...

Answer 4

Let her talk u will soon find a mutual interest that u will be able to talk about endlessly. If u like her u will put in the effort!

Answer 5

Not all women like talking on the phone. You never know until you get to know her better.

Answer 6

Hehe, dump her *** and date me...I don't really like talking on the phone either. I prefer in person interaction. ;)

Seriously, maybe you guys could talk on the phone for a little bit, then chat online longer.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Make sure that you hang up when you're ready to hang up. Never let them hang up first. There's a reason for that...just take the advice I give you. I know what I'm talking about.

Answer 8

tell her you are phone problems and emails the only way you can talk(reading email is better on the eyes)

Answer 9

just flirt with her on the phone

Answer 10

I am a girl and love long nights calls, that is how we are, take it or you leave it. But you will find it everywhere. If you do not like long calls stop dating.