im still in love with my ex boyfriend. hes incrediably gorgeous and i cant stand not talking to him. i dont think he likes anyone right now and he personally invited me to his party and im thinking of asking him out. i really just dont kno what to do.
btw- we broke up because i had to dump him for cheating on me with my best friend
2006-11-30 10:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what the hell is wrong with you! You never go back with someone who cheats on you. Try find your tru soulmate. Dont waste your time on him you can do better.
2006-11-30 10:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nani 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one, if he's your ex that's usually a signal that it wasn't meant to work out.
For another, if he cheated on you, that's an even bigger sign that you shouldn't try asking him out again.Because really, it will probably end up happening again.
& just because a guy is gorgeous doesn't mean that you love him. Because to base it all on looks isn't that intelligent. I'm not saying you are basing it all on looks though, that's just what it seems, from the information you gave.
But if you really can't stand tnot talking to him, just because you aren't boyfriend & girlfriend doesn't mean you can't talk to each other. Just be friendly with him I'd say. Try having him as a friend, instead of a boyfriend.
2006-11-30 18:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go to his party, or ask him out you are only setting yourself up to be hurt again. Not worth the pain and heartache. If he will cheat on you with of all people your best friend--he see anybody he wants to. Also I would seriously consider dumping the "best friend" too.
2006-11-30 18:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You're only encouraging history to repeat itself.
Also, the fact that you mentioned his looks FIRST says something about the depth of your relationship. . . . . .
2006-11-30 18:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by It's Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then go for it, but always remember "Once a cheater, always a cheater".If he cheated on you once then what makes you think he won't do it again?
2006-11-30 18:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you love him, but just his doggy style. Why else would you have feelings for someone that cheats? If he did it then, rest assured he will do it again.
2006-11-30 18:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by blunter26 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you love him sounds like you lust after him. He's your ex for a good reason. Raise your standards woman!
2006-11-30 18:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeahh cheaters dont change- they just dont.
ive learned that the hard way
hes not worth it..but being friends is def cool.
2006-11-30 18:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by name goes here. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yuor luck goes all around you. Just go for it.
2006-11-30 18:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes not worth it, cheaters should be punished not helped
2006-11-30 18:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by Erdelac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋