please help, me and this girl from alaska met in a hotel from one of her friends, we fell in love instantly, but i knew she had a boyfriend/fiancee the whole time, we had sex and had lots of fun during the summer of 06', i deployed to iraq and she went to live with him in the lower states and im going on leave soon and she is going back up to alaska to visit her firends/family, i am trying to decide weather to go to germany alone and spend christmas alone up there, but probably have a good time...or go back to alaska and hang out with her and have sex with her?? would it only make things worse for us, cause she still says she wants me and likes me a lot...so the question is...go back to alaska with someone that is using me as a rebound and she doesnt know who to choose me or him/or go to germany by myself and meet girls up there and go clubbing?? please help !!
2006-11-30 10:49:47 · 10 answers · asked by kyle k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this chick. She's clearly using you, and you're letting her. I understand that you guys had fun together and all that, but it's really not a good idea to be with someone who already has a significant other. Eventually he will find out and it may not turn out good for one or both of you. I would just go to Germany, relax a bit, go out clubbing or whatever to have fun... but just enjoy your leave. Don't waste your time with girls who are only gonna drop you.
2006-11-30 10:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking me if you should go to Alask and be used? It's up to you, but I think you've answered your own question by your question's description! (Listen to yourself)
Go to Germany alone. You'll have your self-respect. If the Alaskan girl really likes you, she'd dump the fiance.
The truth is hard to swallow, but none-the-less, much easier to live with. Call her and ask if she's leaving him for good. If she does, then she could meet you in Germany, for GOOD.
The ONLY thing you get out of the Alaskan experience is: being used = (sad, at best).
The FIRST thing you get out of Germany = self respect.
2006-11-30 10:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gaby, He won't be able to be in the Marines with a tattoo that is going previous his pt (actual preparation) equipment, he will be immediately disqualified, he can bypass to the military if he needs. As for the letter, do not do this, tell her now earlier you go away. Like someone stated the worst that would want to ensue is you get rejected you'd be travelling the international and assembly new women individuals.
2016-10-08 00:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by jeudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think shes really worth it then go to alaska with her and spend a great time with her... but if you think this relationship is not going to last forever than go to iraq or germany whatever... the answer depends on how much you love her
~goodluck~
2006-11-30 10:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by º°partaygirl°º 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to screw around, go find some single chick...why would you think well at all of some chick you KNOW is a cheater? You're not in love with her sugar, it's infatuation and lust...and she's nothing but a betrayer.
If she'd cheat on him, she'd cheat on you. Sex is easy to come by...go to Germany, party hard, and forget people who aren't worth wasting your time over.
2006-11-30 10:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to germany and meet girls. German Girls, if they like you, they will have sex with you no problem. Its not that big of a deal there.
2006-11-30 10:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Germany and get it on with all the fit birds there...you dont need a co ck teaser in your life.
2006-11-30 10:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to germany alone and tell that ***** to rebound on someone else because there are plenty of girls that r hot in germany so kick her to da curb
2006-11-30 10:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Marylen b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to germany alone
2006-11-30 10:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her not worth it let to go.
2006-11-30 10:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nani 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋