Hi all,
My girlfriend comes out to visit me on the weekends. Well last week while heading out my girlfriend forgot her cellphone. While entering my room to retrieve the phone she saw "lev" my roomie helping himself to her panties in the bathroom. I personally am revolted by his behavior. She wants me to call the cops on him. I dont think its that big a deal. Isnt this type of behavior normal for guys, sniffing panties. In college it was quite the pasttime. What should I do.
2006-11-30 10:49:00 · 15 answers · asked by windsurfingfun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you are revolted, then you think it's normal, so which is it? In any case, I get it. We were all teenagers once. However, it is an invasion of privacy and disrespects you and your gf. While calling the cops may be a bit extreme and useless, I'd give this guy one warning...stay away or else. It's only funny if someone else is laughing. If this guy is an adult, then it's become perverse. He's got a problem with boundaries. You might need to find a new roommate.
2006-11-30 10:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say that I engage in this behavior myself, but I can't imagine it being anything but normal. Your friend is overreacting. I mean, what would the cops do? Arrest your roommate for panty-sniffing? hahahaha
If your friend doesn't want her panties sniffed or is freaked out by it (which is understandable), tell her not to leave her panties lying around and there won't be a problem for her anymore. Of course she will think the guy is a creep, which is a normal thing to think about some strange guy sniffing panties behind her back, but you can't arrest someone for being *just* a creep.
2006-11-30 18:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by scottrc5391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh - well, that's pretty messed up if you ask me, and you sort of did...
In college I don't recall pantie sniffing as a big hobby, sex, drugs, alcohol... those were pretty much the norm...
More importantly she is offended and hurt. So the rule goes, your roommate is toast. No one offends or hurts a woman, emotionally or physically.
She properly feels that she's been violated - and you should support her in that.
If I was an advocate of violence I would have suggested decking him...
So kick him out. She's more important - and he needs to get a life.
-dh
2006-11-30 18:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call the cops on him but do talk to him and tell him to keep away from your girlfriend's undies and to apologize to her. Its probably not a big deal for guys to sniff girls' panties but it's very frightening and creepy for a woman to see her undies mishandled in that way.
If you don't want your girl to have issues with you then you will need to have a talk with your roommate.
2006-11-30 18:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by elektriktourist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave a note addressed personally to him in panty drawer. He will never do it again. I did that with a bass who was perusing my locked desk contents after hours. The note was insulting & named him. I had a union backing me up however. He never did it again. I knew it was him by surrepititiuous means.The catch 22 is he will never admit to it, or complain about it. Only problem is keeping for laughing after trap is sprung.
2006-11-30 18:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by ibeboatin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her panties back for sure & tell him if there is a next time ?
he'll be wearing those panties, with a bra, duct taped & locked out of the house too ..
then the neighbors can call the law...should make your girfriend smile...
2006-11-30 18:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be glad that your girl wasn't in the panties when he was sniffing on them. also i'd keep a close eye on your buddy so he don't try to score on you girl.
2006-11-30 18:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by jasperlindsey@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I'd keep him away from your girl first off. If he is sniffing her panties, I wonder what else he wants to sniff.
2006-11-30 18:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by blunter26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend to stop leaving her panties laying around. I hope she's hot. Can you blame the guy?
2006-11-30 18:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dilemna. He's got a fettish, just let him be. If she is honestly that serious about it, she should talk to him. I don't believe calling the cops would do anything, is that even a crime?
2006-11-30 18:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Allie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋