okay, so, my friend recently got layers put in her hair and died it red. now she's a sexy lil firecracker. (god i love my word choice) when i first met her she wanted to die, her self esteem was low and she was ugly (sorry, i'm ticked off). Now I'm not the only one telling her she's beautiful.....(okay so she had like 4 other compliments)...and she's letting her effing hair cut get to her head! she acts more confident, but maybe too confident. she's talking to, hugging and kissing the most popular guy @ the school. and all my friends who she use to talk bad about are getting hugs from her (now i can barly get a hug in when she's around) and all this time i've pressed a fake smile on my face and told her everything was okay. but it's not. and today she went too far when she hugged the guy tht i've liked for years four friggin times! my friends acting slutty and because of a friggin hair cut, what do i do?
2006-11-30 10:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by santaz_lil_slacker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for those of you who say I'm being jealous that's not the case, she's completely left me in the dust and when she was down i stood by her side, i've always brought her up......ask lyssa1913 who i stood by when lyssa1913 was being evil to abbey!!!!!!!
get your effing story straight b4 you talk crap about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-30 12:49:08 · update #1
I do like your choice of words too! but i think a part of you is jealous that she has been getting extra popular attention at school, it's normal so don't take that personally. I totally commend you for sticking by her side when it seems she was at a difficult point in her life - and now that she has become someone who has confidence, she has seemed to write you off and the true meaning of friendship. I know popularity is all that is important in high school, the "in crowd" - don't be fake to fit in, you'll hate yourself for it and people won't know the real you. If your friend is shallow enough to push your buttons with the guy that you like, she's not a true friend. sounds like you both are starving for attention. if you guys are really good friends try talkin to her about it...the hugs could have been harmless. don't assume, ask!
2006-11-30 10:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change anything about yourself or the way you treat her. things have a funny way of coming full circle. if you have been a great friend to her and now she's acting crazy with you, just ride the wave. she will realize again who her true friends are (not to jinx her, but friends who all of a sudden like u because of a haircut seem pretty fake/fairweather to me). hopefully she'll realize this before she loses you.
2006-11-30 18:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it wonderful when the tables get turned and you get to see how she must have felt.
Let her enjoy this!
Grow up and quit being so jealous, she's still your friend!
2006-11-30 18:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like akon says "smack that all on the floor.....man slap a the hoe and tell her to stop trippin...and the guy you like go for it dont be embarrased if something happens it happens if it dont then move on...if she can do it why not you unless she does look good...hhhmmm
2006-11-30 18:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Orlando 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the haircut its the confidence she feels --- truly be happy for her --- and a hug is nothing --- if you like the guy talk to him maybe he likes you more than he likes her
2006-11-30 18:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being jelous doll yourself up too thats what it sounds to me that you need the attention too.try it and see what happens
2006-11-30 18:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about get over it and not be so self centered. She is your friend and you should be happy for her.
2006-11-30 18:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cyrinos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats low.
of her.
get a haircut yourself.
but b4 that, talk to her.
2006-11-30 18:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that jealousy i hear...let the duff get her day in the sun....
2006-11-30 18:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this. she'll relize this sometime.
2006-11-30 18:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋