I'm 37 and I've slept with about 35-40 different women but I havent slept with one for a year since I sobered up...what's going on?
2006-11-30 10:37:48 · 13 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are in a clear state of mind and now you can look for the right girl instead of one who just likes to party. Congratulations on your sobriety now you can date a woman than wants the person you really are not the one hidden behind the alcohol. I am not sure if this makes any sense but it sounded good. Just make of it what you can.
2006-11-30 10:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the numbers thing, I think it is up to the individual to determine if that if more or less than your own "fair share". Everyone has their own set of standards, morals, etc that determine that magic number.
With the fact that you have not "slept with one" for a year, since your sobriety started, I think that is possibly a reflection on the fact that you have been concentrating on other "goals" for the time being. It might also be a reflection of the idea that you are now approaching women with your mind clear and perhaps noticing things you did not before or being a slight more selective.
Whatever the reason, congratulations on a year of sobriety and good luck with your future!
2006-11-30 20:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by just another chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you remember since you just sobered up? Are you telling us to brag or because you have remorse? I think you shoud quit now since that is an unnatural amount of women! I am 36, and I can count on one hand who I have been with and I could have had actors and can get anyone. My love of God keeps me grounded! Do you have annything to look forward to?
2006-11-30 18:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you are sober man! Sounds like you have had more than your share. Remember it's about quality and not quantity. Get you a good woman to love and stand beside her if you really want to be happy and content.
2006-11-30 18:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you are saying that you slept with all those women being drunk? Then it doesn't count. I wonder how do you remember how many did you sleep with? Start counting now, my friend.
2006-11-30 18:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Yana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your back to the real world. you probly gave these girls hieous chat up lines haha.you'll find the right person if you stay sober and not another notch on your bed post.good luckx
2006-11-30 18:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were a jackass then and now you're turning into a good boy. Reminds me of who finishes last, Mr. Nice Guy. You can now choose who you want to be.
2006-11-30 19:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe now that you're sober your standards are higher whereas before you'd sh*g pretty much anything in a skirt?
2006-11-30 18:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Janus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you more than used up your quota. Leave 'em to the rest of us.
2006-11-30 18:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Atlas 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your share and mine by the looks of it.
2006-11-30 18:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋