You know youve heard the story of people who have been in a long relationship and love eachother so much only to find out one of them was cheating. I want to know if you have experienced that or if you would put yourself in that situation and why you thought it would be worth it.
2006-11-30 10:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by becca_boo2442 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
2006-11-30 10:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by dl_williamson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced this, and it is not worth it. I was dating a guy for a few months, then i found out he cheated on me. We broke up. Then we started hanging out again as friends. That lead to dating again, but he just cheated that time too. Since then, i will never do that again. It is just setting yourself up for heartbreak. I'm sure it is different for other people, but i have had bad experiences with it.
2006-11-30 10:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf never cheated on me as far as I know. But I would hang out with him now. The one before that I might meet one more time, but would never ever get back with him because he is a total liar.
2006-11-30 10:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in the least. I have a new relationship, why would I want to ruin that? Plus, an ex is just an ex, nothing more.
2006-11-30 10:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause i thought it was over between us she closed me out of her life ya im losening her she leaven as soon as son graduates from school im not a mean man or a hiter gust did some thing very stupid if i could id go back and never do it again i hope i get that chanche not every one is willing to forgive and forget and go on
2006-11-30 10:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by clifford d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I wouldn't go out with two at a time. If I wanted back with my ex, I'd let my current guy know it was off first. I'm a one guy girl.
2006-11-30 10:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would not put myself in that situation. I had that happen to me before and it was not pretty. We ended up doing some things that almost jeporadized my relationship with my man. So I would not go.
2006-11-30 10:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Once you cheat, we are through and besides that, it certainly wouldn't be fair to do that to your current partner and would destroy all trust. No it would not be worth it at all.
2006-11-30 10:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry no. first, it's not right. and it's not fair to my current relationship. and i won't be right, since i value myself highly. i would only be cheating myself.
2006-11-30 10:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would because everyone deserves a 2dn chance and y? Because your not married!
2006-11-30 10:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋