help please?

Question

two of my friends like the same guy and they dont no that the other person does..im the only one that knoes and i dont want them to stop being friends.. what do i do?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, you can not make people like each other or continue to be friends. You can only be responsible for you. However, my suggestions would be [a] for you to invite both friends for an "exhale party" so that the "guy" issue could be addressed and discussed and so that you could address your concerns about their on-going friendship. Guys will come and go but good friendship is difficult to find, especially as you get older; or [b] you could suggest to each of them to let the other person know about their feelings about the guy in question. If they are at least good friends, they may be able to find an answer that will be right for the both of them. Either way they may surprise you. In the future you may not want to put yourself in this position, because sometimes in affairs of the heart, the fact that you knew, could easily backfire on you and both friends may decide to stop speaking to you. The outcome of the situation is dependent on the level of maturity of all parties involved. I hope this advice helps you and Good Luck.

Answer 2

They are both women so no matter what you do they are going to fight over her. You should tell them both so they can be aware of it, but girls are freakin stupid and will back stab each other to get a guy. Yep you know it's true. Guys for the most part are less likely to screw over a friend over a girl than a girl is.

Answer 3

this is exactly what is going on between me and my friend. me and her both like the same guy. she told everyone but know i feel like i cant tell her becuase she will like hate me. you should just talk to each of them about telling the other person or at least trying to.

Answer 4

Stay out of it..You will get blamed if it goes sour..