Theres this guy at school who is soooo cute, i really like him, i mean alot. And im not sure, but he seems to be intrested too! The only problem is is that i don't think he knows im into him, and i really want him too without coming on STRONG! I don't think that he knows exactly how cute he is because he is not the most popular guy, hes more mysterious and i really like that. I don't think he thinks he has a chance with me, which not to sound concided, but im am in the popular crowd and i really dont mean to sound arrogant, its not a BIG deal to me1 i just really want this guy before christmas, please help me be serious i really need help!
2006-11-30 10:09:32 · 22 answers · asked by Im that girl! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm kinda social and I always go for the mysterious loner types too. Don't ever ask them out on a date, out of the blue. Too much pressure. Oblique strategies work best.
Use this: "I know this girl who would be really interested in getting to know you better, but she's shy. Want her number?" Smile. He can say "not interested" or "Really? who is she?". "Me silly, call me" and then write your number on his hand with the pen you have ready.
Don't play games with people and give little hints, etc. etc. Guys don't even think the same way we do and they don't read those kinds of signals. Be funny and don't always expect shy guys to react like you think they will. He's just as afraid of you as you are of him.
2006-11-30 10:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its good that he is who he is . i think you should pull him aside and sit down and tell him how you feel . And dont worry if he not popular some of those people can be real great . And if you two are made for each other things like what group your in will not matter. you will be togther for a long time you should do it cuse later in life you my not get a chance to tell him and he may slip away.
2006-11-30 10:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by dorota p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ill answer your question like this.
When i was in school, i wasnt in the popular crowd, but got along with most of them. I never dated any girls from my school, but did from the other schools.
At my 20th reunion, I was approached by more than one of the girls from the "social group" in high school, telling me that they had a crush on me in high school, and wished that they had dated me. Of course my wife was standing beside me at the time. My answer to them, was this. "Well we both lost out didnt we". It made me feel good to know how they felt, even if was 20 years later.
So, tell him how you feel, and dont let your social status interfere with your emotions. It may be the best time you ever had with him.
2006-11-30 10:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by ob10830 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tomorrows Dec. 1st, why not give him a Christmas card. In the card say something like:
Happy Holidays!
If you're up to it it'd be cool to hang out during the holidays.
Dreaming of Mistletoe,
Could work?
2006-11-30 10:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 604 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask him for his emaill add and you could chat with him online. that would make your relationship with him much closer. Dont be shy to make a move. Be brave girl. Ask him out for a movie or dinner. Its ok to ask a guy out. & Good luck.
2006-11-30 10:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you like this guy, go over to him and ask him if he's free one night, friday for a movie or something. have u talked to him? if not, than maybe that's too strong. maybe ask him if he and you could do homework together one day. or sit with him during lunch.
2006-11-30 10:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. show interest.
2. don't make him jealous.
3. because he will leave you.
4. and you won't have him.
5. before Xmas.
2006-11-30 10:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Walk up tp him and talk to him. Let him know in your own words that you like him and would like to start seeing him.
2006-11-30 10:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out already your the popular one and so it shouldn't be a big deal!
2006-11-30 10:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by bbalhotshot 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋