Ok i am 15 and my BF David is on the varsity wrestling team, i really like him and he rlly wants me sexually as i the same. and im on the basketball team, my cousin sammi(im lucy using her computer) is dating his brother dylan do you all think it would be right if i had sex with him? because i dont know if i should or what cause i want to alot. hes nice and all at school we like to pick on each other alot for fun. so any opinions or somthing anything at all would help out. please and thankyou
2006-11-30 10:03:52 · 12 answers · asked by samantha_lawson23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not wanting to have sex with dylan i want to have sex with david just to make that clear
2006-11-30 10:07:06 · update #1
I think if you feel like you are ready (which apperently you do), and you know about all the risks and how to prevent them then you may be ready to move forward. Thats not what your question is about.
If your sister is the kind of person who would get mad at you for being with her bf's brother than you might want to talk to her or think about how much you really want it.
Everything else aside I think you should observe the situation, sexual emotions not involved (which can be hard), and if you want to then go ahead. I hope everything goes well with whatever you choose an how things end up in the future for you. Good luck!
2006-11-30 10:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Male16 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are young and can afford to wait to have sex. You will have plenty of oppurtunities to have sex when you are older and better able to protect yourself and deal with the emotional baggage that comes with having sex.
Also, it's important for you to know that the relationship between a man and a woman changes once they have had sex. If you choose to have sex with David you might find that you liked him as a friend better than as a lover. The problem there is that you won't be able to go back to your friendship with David like nothing happened.
2006-11-30 18:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you guys are ready to face the consequences of having sex (i.e. getting pregnant, STD, etc) taking the relationship to another level might not make you closer it can change everything. You haven't mentioned how long you guys have been together either. Sometimes in the beginning of a relationship we only see the good side of our partners, not there bad side. Wait a little longer see how your relationship goes and when you are sure about everything you can definitely make a decision that is perfect for you. Remember nobody can decide for you or push you into deciding.
2006-11-30 18:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be thinking about having sex. If you are still considering it think about the other side i.e. getting pregant, getting an std or having people at school finding out and teasing you. You are only 15 years old wait for the right guy. If your bf doesnt want to wait then he isnt the right guy for you!!!
2006-11-30 18:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by bluetiger856 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take things slow b/c most of all things come with consequences and maybe you should slow down with your bf b/c things can happen! and just to let you know im 15 too so im not like a parent trying to tell u what to do. but yeah i had bout the same experince last year and it ended up in a badd situation i thought i loved this guy but turns out he didnt love me back. but i thought to myslef man i really want to have sex really bad.but it all urned out wrong in the end b/c sex outside of marriage is wrong no matter what our friend are doing.
I want to wish you luck with that too. b/c once you give it up you'll never get it back. just remember that.
2006-11-30 18:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by heatherstike2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on U have all the time U need for sexual experiences'' and there is nothing beter than wait for a time when YR older. and with some one U really Love in every aspect of the word
concentrate on school. sports. and enjoying life
2006-11-30 18:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15 years old, keep your panties on, There is more to life than just having sex. For goodness sakes. Find something to do with yourself. God bless****
2006-11-30 18:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
let me get thsi right. you're going out with david. and your cousin is going out with dylan. and you want to have sex with your cousins boyfriend?? dont do it, its wrong.
2006-11-30 18:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything to ruin the relationship.. just be careful!!! do what you think is right and dont be pressured into anything
2006-11-30 18:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by EmUhLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should maybe wait. at least til you're older or when you're with him longer. and if he pressures you then he's not worth it. good luck! =] and don't worry, if he loves you, he'll wait.
2006-11-30 18:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋