We met 1yr ago, clicked & really enjoyed being with each other but she wasn't ready for a relationship - she'd just got out of a long one, but we still saw each other & got very close, but she was very hot & cold. Months later, she told me wanted to see other guys, but also see me, and weeks later she broke things off... weeks later her Ex proposes, but she declined.
Months later we met-up again & had a nice date, but she's hot&cold again, so I told her I could never see her again,but I told her I loved her, she replied she wasn't ready right now.
Months on, she calls, we meet, was nice... she flirts, hugs & kisses. Later I left, didn't want to get hurt, she calls, I ignore her, & she goes mad. Days later she apologies & tells me she met a nice guy, but it wasn't a date. So I ignored her... 2 months later she calls me on Sunday morning 1 month ago but haven't called her back - don't want to get hurt again, I still love her.
Why does she call? What does she want? Should I call?
2006-11-30 10:02:33 · 10 answers · asked by MJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
answer the call and talk to her about it
2006-11-30 10:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by luckyxlovee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she calls for different reasons. It sounds like she still likes you in a way, too. But it could just be a friendly way.
If it was a friendly way, she'd just be calling to catch up with you & stuff. She'd just like to talk to you because you're a nice person & she considers you as a friend.
If it was any other way, more then friendly, she could be calling to try and drop hints about it. She may be shy to let you know that she likes you anymore then a friend. & she may tell you about other guys because she wants you to be jealous in a way. She may want you to speak out about it or something.
But if you still love her, and the only thing you're worried about is getting hurt. Well, just let her know that you still love her. Sometimes love is about getting hurt, even if that may not be your favourite part in the whole thing.
I'd say to call her, 'cause you never know what could lead to other things. & if you call, well, it shows that you still care for her & that you just haven't forgotten about her.
2006-11-30 18:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel, and if her intentions aren't obvious do what you think is right. Obviously she didn't want that other guy for a reason, so maybe she is interested in you, but if you get with her tell her straight up you don't want to end your relationship in tears. You can still be friends if things don't always work out.
2006-11-30 18:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she wants much less who. Change your phone number if you have to but you have definitely chosen the right course of action. She keeps calling because she knows you love her and she needs consolation but she's not thinking of you. She's merely filling a hole in her heart for a little while. Definitely pray for her but stay away from her.
2006-11-30 18:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you're her rebound. She's desperate for love and attention. I understand if you're hurt. It's alright to still love her but you can do better than a girl like that. Find a girl who will treat you right, stay with you and love you! And tell her how you feel. Say you don't deserve to be treated that way and she can't keep doing that to you.
2006-11-30 18:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by tia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds rediculous! She has no idea what she wants. She'll probably end up being one of those girls who gets married like 5 times, is never happy, can't really commit.....
Sorry you love her but she's never really going to be good for you. I hope you find the stregnth to move on.
2006-11-30 18:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing mind games. She only wants to know that she has your attention. Avoid her like the plague..she will only hurt you more. I know it hurts you..but this is a mental abuse and you need to look out for yourself first in this situation..
2006-11-30 18:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She calls becasue you give her the attention she is seeking.
She wants you to pursue her to make her feel wanted.
Don't call, she is crazzy!
2006-11-30 18:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Katie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are your intentions of the relationship?
2006-11-30 18:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get her shes usng you
2006-11-30 18:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by .._JaZzY FizZle_.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋