my guy friend tells me to come over and i called him today to ask him if he still wants me to come over and he said not right now he said he was going to take a nap he said he whould call me he's been doing this all this week. he didnt do it last week. and everybody is saying that he likes me and thats why he is doing this is that true? well what ever it is its hurting me and i dont know what to do?
2006-11-30 09:52:41 · 9 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
going to take a nap....hmmm i don't know...if he wants to see you he would put napping aside and be eager to see you...sound kind of suspicious to me...
2006-11-30 09:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why he's doing it but you shouldn't put up with it. He is not treating you right. If he really liked and respected you he wouldn't make you wait until he took a nap. Does he expect you to sit around and wait for him and then come running when he calls ?? If he likes you and is doing it for that reason just imagine how he will treat you when he likes you more. The guy is a jerk. Find a new one.
2006-11-30 17:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he obviously is too nervous.you have to make the first move. here's what you do. call him and tell him that you are having some serious trobules. tell him you really want to talk to him about it. ask if you can go over to his place to talk. show up wearing a trench coat with only some lingerie underneath. also bring some wine or beer( your choice) oh and bring a lionel richie cd, or a cd that at least has the song all night long
2006-11-30 17:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by naota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you. He may be to shy and think "wait, what are we going to do?" because he thinks liking you will change everything. If it hurts you, I'd suggest talking with him and letting him know what's on your mind.
2006-11-30 17:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup- he likes ya and prob wants to get to know ya better. If you like him too, go for it. Stick to your guns tho. DOnt let him pressure you into anything (like sleeping with him) Good luck with everything tho!!!
2006-11-30 17:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him know that he is sending you mixed signals and that he needs to let you know what he is really feeling, if he cant come up with a good answer than that would mean it is time to move on and look for someone that would...
GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-30 17:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. be honest and open. say "look, what's with all these naps. can't a nap with you!?"
2006-11-30 17:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by JACK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might be true. he is shy and don't know how to act around u. should talk to him.
2006-11-30 17:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's messing with you, if he really liked you he would still be trying
2006-11-30 17:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by meirab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋