have you ever been in a situation where you had a man but found another man attractive and would like to pursue something with the other man but you do love and respect your man...... would you still pursue it???
2006-11-30 09:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by SHORTY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think you need to do what you would want done to you, always turn it around .... than you have the right answer
2006-11-30 09:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been in that situation before. In my case ummmmm....maybe quite often. Not because my man doesn't satisfy me, but because I loooooovvvve attractive men, especially the ones that smell ssssssexy! ON top of that living on the edge of adrenaline can be exciting. Sometimes being intrested in a "all of a sudden attraction" means maybe you should try something new in the bedroom or maybe you should try something spontaneous! I really love my boyfriend so If i were to leave him or mess over on him it's going to have to be for something more than mere attraction. To answer you question in short. No, I wouldn't pursue it.
2006-11-30 18:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by TONYA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was in that situation about a year ago. I ended up leaving my current boyfriend to pursue the other and we are still dating a year and three months later.
But, it shouldn't be base on his looks (since you used the word attractive).... but also, and most importantly, what kind of man he is. I not only pursued my current boyfriend because he was good looking and charming, but because he is intelligent, a gentleman, kind, outgoing, confident, sensual, etc.
I had tot hink about it for a month or two before I eventually made my decision.
MY ADVICE: FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
I know it sounds cliche.... but it's so true.
*And I'm talking leaving your current for the other man for a relationship.... not a fling.
2006-11-30 17:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by shortnspunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find many men attractive, however, being with someone who I love and respect. No, I would not pursue an outside relationship, I have a commitment. God bless****
2006-11-30 17:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I broke up with my current man to pursue the new interest. It went well.. but nothing serious came out of it. I'm still friends with the new interest, and don't regret leaving the current man.
2006-11-30 17:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by peace318sb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!!! I'm going through that right now .So I know exactly what your going through and it ain't easy 2 get through .2 tell u the truth. Stay with the guy that you're wit cause the only thing that's goinna 2 happen is your man is gonna be heartbroken and u'll never get his friendship back, even if u begged.
2006-11-30 17:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by sassysolider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to look around. Its normal to be attracted to other people. What makes people respectable or not respectable is how they react to it. Its fun to imagine; thats what fantasy is for.
2006-11-30 17:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be tempted but no i will not pursue, look at it this way "why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home".
2006-11-30 17:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do that to your Mr. Man!
Be Good now,you no better then that.lol
2006-11-30 17:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved and respected him you wouldn't.
2006-11-30 17:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋