ive been in this relationship for three years iight...we have done some foreplay n i have gone down on her a couple of times but i cant bring myself to sleep witt her im scared she will think im like all the other guys she been witt n that all i will want is sex n thats not true i love her more then nething else in this world...wat do i do?
2006-11-30 09:21:25 · 16 answers · asked by babyboi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the right time to go all the way is when both of you are comfortable with talking about it (the positives and the consequences that may arise) and when you are both ready. it is a big step...
after a 3 year relationship though, she should know that you aren't just there for sex...if she feels that she would like to wait til she is married, then you gotta wait (but remember i answered another question of yours abour marriage so read that one again!) lol!
it just seems a lil "HUH?!?" that you guys were able to talk about her past and 'all the other guys she has been wit' although you and her haven't talk about having sex with eachother??? you are obviously a good guy and are a sweetheart...hmmm (is it her age?) can you add details? please?
anyway, i hope this helped a lil...
2006-12-01 03:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with her for 3 years and haven't had sex yet then she should know by now that that's not what your after. talk to her about it first. tell her how much you care about her and that you might be ready to take your relationship to the next level, but only if she's ready as well. ask her how she feels about it. how much foreplay have you done? has she done anything to you? if she hasn't then maybe she isn't comfortable yet. but the most important thing to do is to talk to her about how she feels. you don't want to make a move and have her be uncomfortable. and who knows you may find out that she wanted it all along.
2006-11-30 17:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. you prob dont want to hear this but if you havent had sex wit her 4 3 yrs then shes getting it some where else theres signs you can tell if shes been cheating,email me n i will tell you! bytchbfyne@yahoo.com
2006-11-30 17:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask her about it. Its been 3 years....she probably wants it as bad as you do. But you'll never know unless you ask. I doubt she will think thats all you want if you guys have been together for so long.
2006-11-30 17:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude honestly if you have been with a girl for three years you should guys should know what each others feelings are about having sex...you should know whether she is waiting until marriage or what...that is just backwards if you dont...by three years you should know everything about her
2006-11-30 17:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe in Pre-marital Sex -
I mean come on letz face it ...who wants to spend life with someone with whom you are not physically satisfied? ? ? Why not talk to her openly and say it's imp for the relationship to be more close physically...if she loves she will be close to physically
2006-11-30 17:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been going out for three years and you guys havent had sex yet?
2006-11-30 17:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after six months---you are 2-1/2 years late
2006-11-30 17:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
After you're married!
2006-11-30 17:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by neveralone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three years....................... I dont think she thinks your like the other guys that she has been with : /
2006-11-30 17:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by poodah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋