If your current boyfriend said he'll change, why not give him a chance? I would that way you know for sure you didn't make a mistake by ending the relationship early. If it doesn't work out then contact your previous boyfriend if you still want. You probably were only contacting your previous relationship because you were feeling sad and lonely. It is totally normal to go back to someone you are comfortable with and you don't have to start new. Everyone does that but it doesn't mean they are Mr. right they are more like comfy shoes. Ok girl good luck!! =)
2006-11-30 09:22:09
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answered by ? 6
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If you run when things get hard or you aren't getting all of the attention you think you need then you may never be able to find a true lasting love. People are humans and make mistakes. Yea your ex sounds good now because you feel your relationship your in is lacking. if you are that concerned about it you should make the changes needed to be happy with you man you are currently with. And if that doesn't work you can take it from there. Tell you man if he doesn't make the time for you that you need and want you are going to move on...
2006-11-30 17:21:57
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answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3
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The first thing that jumped out at me when reading this, was that you have already started talking to someone else. My advice is to put a stop to that until you figure out what you want to do with your boyfriend that you are with. A second guy will only complicate matters.
The second thing that I noticed....is that you mention wanting your guy to "make you happy". Your happiness is your own responsibility. Placing that burden on a boyfriend, or anyone else is too heavy a burden for anyones shoulders.
It is as simple as deciding if you can live with what your boyfriend honestly has to offer you....if you really want HIM....the person he really is inside. Not the person that you want him to "change" to become.
No one has a right to ask someone else to change. However, if he wants to try to be more attentive....give the guy a chance. But, put the second one on hold.....til you see where things are going with the first.
Good luck!
2006-11-30 17:30:11
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answered by treefrog 4
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first off dont go back to the ex bf.. you obviously left him for a reason so basically going back with him means you are going backwards and that is not good... as for your current man/bf maybe you are spending too much time together.. have you ever thought maybe he was cheating. if someone isnt making you happy majority of the time then loose em because you have one life and damn you deserve to be happy. also... guys dont bring you happiness.. they help... but you have to be happy first... by yourself... independent,,, hopefully this has helped
2006-11-30 17:23:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Nobody is happy all the time, thats a fact. Does he know your talking to your ex, if he does not your not being honest yourself. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Your ex if hes that good why are you not with him now?
2006-11-30 17:22:42
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answered by a h 2
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My thoughts are that this is a very complicated problem that can't be solved by strangers on the internet. Only you can really decide what is right for you
2006-11-30 17:19:57
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answered by uwobuck 2
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If I were one of those guys, I'd be gone in a second. It's hard enough to maintain a secure relationship without someone fickle like this messing with your head.
2006-11-30 17:20:17
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answered by Reo 5
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usually the experts say 18months is the honey moon period and your is only a year so already his feeling to comfortable i say give him time to change say three months if he goes back the same way you move on best of luck
2006-11-30 17:22:39
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answered by diane o 3
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You are not in love with him or you wouldn't open doors to another relationship. What do you think another can offer you that you don't already have?? Time? Who has time?
2006-11-30 17:20:55
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answered by Denise 1
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It sounds like you need to learn how to be alone before you get involved in another relationship.
2006-11-30 17:22:58
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answered by keith s 5
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