can a girl reject me if i kiss badly?

Question

here's the thing. i was verry shy when i was growing up. i could'nt even talk to a gyrl without stating to swet and babble and becoming nervous. as time passed i got over my , but .. when it came to kiss a girl .. the simple thought that she would reject me because i don't know hou to kiss because i have'nt kissed before froze me over .. and made me unable to ask a girls out. all the girls say i'm cute. and they smyle at me when they pass me by .. but i don't have the currage to ask them out . now i am 20 years ... i haven't kissed a girls yet... some friends fixed me up a blind date wihit a girl that likes me . but she doesn't know the real me... shold i tell her that i lied and i never kissed a girl .. showl i play along and let her find out ? i just need a good punch to wake me up ... pls answer

Answer 1

Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great.

Guilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.

If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.

Either way best of luck :-)

Answer 2

Dont lie about it and dont lead her on then all that will happen is she will be upset with you and if u do get that first kiss from her u may never ever get the second! Just be yourself sweetie i agree with 2 of the other answers most girls will find it cute or even flattering that u are unexperienced and will prob be MORE THAN HAPPY TO TEACH YOU! She will also feel SPECIAL that u chose her to be your first kiss! I know I would! The other thing I agree with is that maybe if u have girls that are just friends I BELIEVE IT WOULD BE A GREAT IDEA TO ASK ONE OF THEM U TRUELY TRUST TO TEACH U! If they are a TRUE FRIEND and care about you they will be more than happy to help u become a great kisser or at least get u on the right road so that U CAN FINALLY FIND THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE AND BE ABLE TO SHOW THEM!
I REALLY TRUELY HOPE THIS HELPS U!
Christina

Answer 3

Jeez, chill out. A kiss on the forehead is a gesture a lot of girls like. If it leads to more, it just happens. Obviously you have not had sex yet either, can a girl leave you if you do that badly? Yes! But that is not something you should do with some tramp that has done every guy since she hit puberty. You sound like a decent kid, quit thinking so hard. Relax, if you can't have a date where you enjoy talking, laughing etc, kissing and sex are not going to be any fun either. Wait!!

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Answer 5

I think if a girl really likes you then she will try to work on your kissing skills with you, that's if they do end up not being to her liking. The thing is? Not everyone even likes the same type of kissing method. I dont personally care for a lot of tongue, and even the most secure guys who think they can kiss awesome...are asked to tweak their style a little.

I think you should just go for it. You wont know until you try. And the best thing is...practice makes perfect! =)

Good luck!

Answer 6

Kissing isn't all that mysterious. The key is soft, not puckery hard. You can learn by doing and take the cue from the girl. Don't do French kissing, until things begin to warm up. When that happens, don't thrust your tongue, just a little tongue, again taking your cue from the girl.

So, you needn't confess anything to anyone. You now know all that you need to know.

Answer 7

DON'T LIE!! I did this a lot before about this type of stuff and all of it came back and hurt me bad!!
Just he honest. Some girls think it's cute and they'll be happy to show you how to kiss!
Just be totally natural because kissing is a totally natural thing! Don't be freaked out. Your instincts will surely take over.

Answer 8

Here's a secret from the "Girls rule book"...

You can tell a lover by his kiss.

BUT...You have an advantage!! Tell them that you haven't kissed anyone yet because you're too shy. They will make it their duty to teach you how to kiss.

Answer 9

Do you have any friends that are women? Not girlfriends but just friends? If you do ask them if you can try kissing them so they can tell you how you do and give you some pointers. Just dont ask your sister.

Answer 10

If somebody likes you, they wont care how you kiss. When people kiss, it is to show emotion, not rate-my-kiss-on-a-scale-of-1-to-10. If she likes you, she wont care. Besides, you will forget about and it will be natural, no worries.