I really want him to propose and i have hinted a little and i get the idea that he is not ready. but i still want him to is there any way to pursuade him to do it. i know he loves me and we live together, but i think he is just scared. is there anything i can do?
2006-11-30 09:08:20 · 11 answers · asked by mel2430 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say and be all flirty..""Honey,Do you have a ring for me"?"
2006-11-30 09:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do nothing if he's ready to mary you he will propose but if he's not- you will be his GF until he's ready to be able to support you and live with you. Keep waiting but don't wait too long though More than 3 years is too much. This should be enough time for him to think if he really loves you and wants to spend the rest of forever with you. There's nothing you can do. He will do it on his own. Don't even hint him unless you've been with him over 2 years. If it's only been about 1 year- start talking about marriage and see where he stands and you will have all the answers to your questions. You guys live together? wow- you should definately get married then because if you fight and decide to go your separate ways- who will keep what? it will be a bigger issue and he can kick you out when he wants to because there's no strings attached
2006-11-30 17:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should WAIT. If he is not ready to propose why do you want him to propose? Another mistake you made was living together. He may feel that there is no use in proposing; he already has and is getting everything he wants. This is why the U.S. divorce rate is high. And just to let you know marriage is not cheap and a divorce is even more expensive.
=( BUT IF YOU REALLY WANT TO, GET PREGNANT, THATS WHAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES. =(
bad idea but GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-30 17:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by millie_milla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever force somebody or trick somebody into proposal, the ending is most likely to be that they will feel cornered and will look for the first exit door. What you can and should do is bring up the subject ask him if he ever plans on getting married and what hesitations he may have about it. Sometimes your just not ready.
2006-11-30 17:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he is ready, if you push him you will only make things worse in the long run. If you feel you cant wait then maybe you should find a guy who is ready.
2006-11-30 17:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait on him... If he is ready he will propose, if not, you can always be untraditional and propose to him!
2006-11-30 17:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's scared and you keep hinting your probably gonna scare him even more !! he'l ask you in his own time when he feels ready, pressurise hima and he'l run a mile!
2006-11-30 17:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Caz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he will propose when he is ready!!
2006-11-30 17:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by funbobbi22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you push him into marriage, blame yourself for the divorce.
2006-11-30 17:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Leo F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY????
it is his choice to ask or not to ask
why resort to trickery
2006-11-30 17:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll do it when he is ready, you can't force him.
2006-11-30 17:10:30 · answer #11 · answered by J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋