I just turned 20 and when i look back I have never been in a deep relationship with a girl and I am still embrassed I am a "virgin", even thou i dont like to admit that. Im the daily average guy, I work out, go to college, drive a decent car. I just.... plain.... and.... simple dont have a girlfriend and its been really getting to me. After i graduated from Highschool a year ago my Social level droped and all my friends are now "distance" buddies. I have had in the past fallen for a girl and tried every possible way to tell her how I felt, even gave her flowers, but sadly she was in a relationship and there was nothing more i could do. I even felt stupid posting this, but I figured maybe I could get a decent answer from it...thanks.
2006-11-30 09:07:58 · 8 answers · asked by mover1799 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i duno what to tell but that's easy u have to find sn u know world is tooooooooooooooooo big and it is full of young people and half and even more that a half of them are young girls
be sure that there is ur favourite one among them in ur country and she is waite for u to catch her be sure just be positive
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2006-11-30 09:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Bitchslap* Grow. Up.
You're twenty. How many people your age have been in a monogamous, committed, long term relationship? Damn few.
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Just don't tell the boys, because many of them are idiots who feel that virginity in a male is somehow emasculating.
As for your lack of social life, get out there! Aren't there clubs and organizations at your school? Get involved. Make new friends the same way you did in high school.
As for the flowers thing... There was no hope there. She was involved, and while you flattered her beyond belief, that was all there was going to be to that.
There is nothing wrong with you. You don't need to pick a life partner today. Relax, and let live.
2006-11-30 09:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by pixel_seamstress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.. I'm going to let you in on a lil secret that people learn the hard way.. the best way to find love.. is to stop looking for it. cuz oddly enough that's when people are most attracted to you. because they start to wonder. because when you aren't looking.. you tend to take on a confidence that you yourself don't even notice until someone tells you (this is also why people who are taken seem more appealing then those who are single..) I really wouldn't let it bother me so much if I were you. and hey.. being a virgin.. I think that's a good thing. I'm not one of those people who will preach to you or anything and say you'll go to hell if you "do it" but to me the more girls a guy has slept with.. the more I'll wonder if he has anything, how trustworthy he is, and more importantly (as shallow as it seems) how will I measure up. So really, being a virgin isn't a bad thing. the virgin thing aside, alls I can say is it'll happen when it's supposed to and not before. I know it prolly doesn't make that much sense, but trust me on all this. I hope I've been helpful!
2006-11-30 09:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, look here! you are still just a baby. You have plenty of time to find the right young lady to loose your virginity to. The rate of aids is enough to make a lot of people shut down. Don't feel bad. I am truly proud of you for maintaining . I will say to you , that in do time you will get what you want. If you Pray to GOD. You have got to be serious when you do that. Do not settle for any thing out there. I hope that you are planning to go to college. Focus on your career, advance your life financially, but most of all have a true relationship with GOD and JESUS CHRIST. The Blessings are truly rewarding and great. Hang in there!
2006-11-30 09:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off dont be embarassed. theres nothing wrong at all in being a virgin. the last girlfriend i had we just didnt have any magic and realized we would be better off being friends. that was a few months ago. i know how you feel..it is weird--that feeling is alright tho alot of people feel that way. you seem like you have alot going for you, i i wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-30 09:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dry going to a bar and dancing with girls(you can dance right?) lol. well just be yourself and sooner or later you will be in a relationship in no time! and maybe not even be a virgin any more! and let me tell ya! being a non virgin is fun... u kno what i mean right? well i hope my answer helped you out! just be yourself and noone will get hurt... i said PARTY!
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2006-11-30 09:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, it sounds to me like the two one among you at the instant are not too excited approximately being mutually. the completed factor of a female pal/boyfriend is to have somebody you shelter and have confidence, and desire to spend time with. while you're surely unhappy or uninterested in her, then you certainly could desire to evaluate finding somebody else. i think of you may desire to frivolously and in a well mannered way ask her approximately her remark. What did she advise via exclaiming "God" merely wanted you to be acquaintances? that could desire to be her way of exclaiming, "it wasn't meant to be" and she or he desires to work out people. As for the two one among you being in love, it does not sound like it. once you like somebody, you are able to not stand the seen dropping them. Sounds to me such as you adult adult males merely had some mutual charm that has dwindled now. if your female pal defends a guy pal, it does not could desire to advise something. possibly she merely sympathizes with him or thinks he's stunning relating to the subject. Now, if she's consistently taking his area and sounds like she could extremely spend time with him, you have a topic. attempt asking her why she acts this way in a independent way. If she would be in a position to no longer confer with you, this is an extremely super subject. Feeling mushy conversing to your boyfriend/female pal is the main necessary element of a relationship. i am going out on a limb right here, even though it seems such as you're a teenager. if so, you have a lot of time ahead of you for extreme, significant relationships. If this one isn't that variety, do no longer sweat it, yet do no longer settle for under what is going to make you satisfied.
2016-12-29 17:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, dont feel weird about not havin a girlfriend. and untill you find another group of friends you will feel a lil wierd. just remember to be yourself and your not stupid, we all need help sometimes.
2006-11-30 09:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by calico_gurl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋