Is a 9" penis too big.?

Question

I have a 9" penis and basically it still hurts my woman when i first put it in her. Is it just too big and is it unattractive or attractive?

This is a serious question so if your jealous "T Time" then dont anwser im being serious.

For those asking it's 9" errect. Also oral sexs is not very great as it is also quite wide so a girl can onl fit araound 3" in her mouth, which i absolutely hate!!

Answer 1

No penis is ever too big or too small, but I'm sure some people may be more intimidated by anything bigger (as a 5'5" girl, people who are 6'5" plus are a bit intimidating too!). The average vagina is about 6 inches deep, so if having vaginal sex, make sure you don't try to go all the way in; you'll be poking her in the cervix and that can cause some painful cramping, etc. Having sex in a real entry ("doggy style") position can make it easier, as the vagina can open up more when positioned as such (and as always, the more turned on a woman is, the less anything hurts, as the muscles are less tensed up, so make sure she's not nervous, and is having fun as well). Lots of lube will also help.

Good luck!

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Answer 2

Four questions. Two answers. Do you attain the 9" when it gets erect or as a very large penis, is your flacid and erect size about the same? Is your girth very large also?

Wait until a woman gets adequately lubricated and you are able to slide it in,, don't force yourself. You have to accomodate to any pain she might have. The vagina is remarkably able to adjust to different sizes. But there are limits. Take it easy. No,"slam bam thank you mam."

P.S., are you circumcised? If not, that would enhance the penis' looks. It is a nice kind of plastic surgery, good for a lot of things.It will also take about 1/8" off the end. Regardless it will be beautiful at the urinal and in the locker room. Most guys are envious. Your hormones and genes have not done you in. Quite the contrary.

Answer 3

Dont pay attention to the people making fun of you, they are just punked out player haters, trust me. They are mostly jealous. Anyway, most women prefer a guy exactly your size, trust me. But you've got to understand that women come in all shapes and sizes, as do men. Now your real big, but your not THAT big, and personally, if I was your size dude; I wouldn't try to please some girl that isnt fascinated by my penis. There is such a thing as too big and too small. For the average women, you are right within the 'just right' area. Anything bigger than like 10 might be too large for the average female.

Anyway, regardless of some of the fairy tale answers you will get from some women about this, there has to be compatibility in a relationship. Young people like us DEFINETLY need sexual compatibility with a girlfriend, and you arent getting this at all. If you are unable to make your sex life with this girl work, I highly recommend moving on to a female that will make you feel good about yourself, instead of one that will make you feel kindof lame and insecure.

Its not like you cant still be friends with this girl, or even intamate. But trust me, there are plenty of women out there that will accomodate your size. This chic doesnt work for you sexually, try finding someone that does.

Answer 4

Whether it's too big or not is irrelevant.
whatever u got, u got.
try different position. would suggest less penetration possibly from a behind and sideways angle.

when i was at uni, a guy there had one of 10"

his girlfriend, smashing girl, ended up being damaged.

i couldn't understand why a lot of the guys found this so amusing.

if u are that size u just have to put her physical limitations first.

i have heard of this on a number of occasions so u r not alone. u may find a sex therapist can offer better advice than any of us.

good luck

(oh you've had that already !?)

Answer 5

No 9 inches is not to big a woman can accommodate quite a lot if it's big enough to let a baby out a large penis should be no problem. take time to get her fully aroused with plenty of foreplay and when you are entering her take it slowly. A few women may say big is best but when it comes down to it they become scared and tighten their vaginal muscles that is why it hurts. As I say take your time and the lady in question will soon learn to take all of you. Good Luck.

Answer 6

You'll probably never use the last 2 1/2". Take your time, let her become accustomed to the size. The vagina is a very flexible organ and given time will stretch to accommodate almost any sized penis. Remember that this is the birth canal and passes a baby's head.

Answer 7

Don't take it into too far. You can physically hurt her with it too. If she finds it attractive - great. If not.. there isn't much you can do about it.. but aside from it hurting her... I don't think she'd leave you over it being unattractive.

Put a lot of lube on, and just insert just a little bit.. and ask her.. okay is that comfortable? And go a little further if she says yes. If you talk to her.. and make sure its not too far in, you'll learn where you need to be, and stay there, don't go past that point.

Answer 8

9" is not that long lol try forplay and get her wet lol

maybe if shes into it get her a dildo/vibrator start with a small one and over time get the bigger ones lol

people here are right try doggy youll be ok and try not to think about a baby coming out through it lol(but if they can get out you can get in lol)

and use lube or lubercated rubbers at least

good luck lilman lol

Answer 9

In ancient Rome, you would be considered to be an un-cultured oaf - but nowadays, I expect that most girls like it and even if it is too big - what are you going to do?

...but I knew a man called Rod th Prod and you don't even come close buddy.

Answer 10

i really can't explain much to you right now, because this is your own phisical problem, but I would say to stop anytime when your woman is hurting. she may not like you to go too far, and that would be really bad if you went to far with her and she would hate it........don't worry about your phisical attractivness, though, if she loves you, she'll wait for you to be comfortable- if you are, then just take it slowly, don't rush everything. if she truely DOES love you, she'll love YOU for who YOU really are, so you shouldn't worry, unless she feels uncomfortable. don't do it unless that you both feel really comfotable about it....thats my side of the story.