2006-11-30 09:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lack of communication...lack of love...no respect...being disregarded, taken for granted, boredom....lots of negative things can drive a person to go out and do the dirty on someone else, that's why it's important to keep things alive....
2006-11-30 09:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of communication.
Boredem factor in the bedroom.
Loads of arguments that dont get resolved.
Putting a partner down so they dont feel like an equal in a relationship.
Learning from their parents while young that is something that is done.
The honeymoon period running out.
Lack of trust. been accused of cheating (this often is guilt projection the one who is cheating often accuses the other partner of cheating).
Sex been used as a reward for good behaviour denying sex for a percieved wrong doing.
Different sex drives i.e one partner has a higher sex drive than the other partner.
Difference in board mindedness one partner wanting something that the other partner is not willing to do.
Genetic drive on the basic instinct level. Unable to concieve by current partner.
Just to list a few
2006-11-30 09:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by wandera1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really hard to answer, mainly because it ranges on the person.. and though I've never cheated, I've had plenty of friends who cheated and been cheated on.. here's a list of things that they've told me why they did it..
1. the other person was always accusing me of it so I finally just did it
2. the other person was just dull
3. the other person did it to them so they did it back
4. the other person was too demanding and so they did it as an act of rebellion.
all in all.. it's always "the other person's" fault. I'm a really understanding person, so I can kinda see why a person would want to end it and be with someone else because of these reasons.. but cheating.. that just really doesn't say much for one's character and karma is a b---- so I wouldn't dream of going there. generally cheating is caused by someone losing their senses and not being able to control themselves.
2006-11-30 09:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is the main reason most men / women are insecure with themselves and accumulate their true value through figures how many people they can get. Neglect is also another one not feeling wanted. Finally the inability to Commit...
2006-11-30 09:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No respect for one's self.
Poor personal commitment.
Previous history of cheating.
Lack of feeling "wanted".
Feeling old and unattractive.
Spouse complaining all the time.
No romantic time with spouse.
Commiting too early. (Haven't sewed wild oats yet)
2006-11-30 09:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the predominant attitude is that they put themselves first instead of their partner. They want it to be all about them and their happiness, instead of that of their husband/wife. They have a "plan B" if the marriage isn't working the way they want it to and they are not happy.
2006-11-30 09:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not talking, dishonesty.
If you feel the urge to cheat there is obviously a problem in your relationship
2006-11-30 09:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by James Ed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its just about sex. Its about attention. Someone special, and someone that makes you feel special.
There is obviously an emotional void at the married houshold.... or... a lack of respect for thier partner.
2006-11-30 09:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Vanchaser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. But if the porn is about stuff that you are not doing, it's time to consider the possibility of trying it if the relationship means enough to you. Why not watch the porn together.
2016-05-23 05:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neglect in all senses of the word.
2006-11-30 09:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by debs1701 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋