Today while at work, I had 2 girls age 31 approach me with pictures of themselves together in sexually explicit positions or references to sexual acts, asking me to join them this weekend. Second problem occured with yet another female at work: This one approached me, age 19, and asked if I had a spare key to my place, I asked why? She said she would be waiting for me when I got home and that I could have whatever I wanted with her. Third problem here is that all three of these females are married!!
What is your best advice: I am 40, divorced, have a managment position, but not over any of them, with no kids either. Why is this happening? What should I do about it? Why am I attracting married women? Help me please!!
2006-11-30 08:58:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Steer clear of ick, ick & icky! Look for a decent person who you choose...........my guess is they aren't happily married and why would you even consider putting yourself in that kind of triangle??? Besides let's just hypothetically say you do hook up with one of them - the odds are super high they're gonna hook up with someone else while their still hookin' with you! Hook, Hooker, ho ho ho!! Ü
There's someone else out there for you......not these ho's fo sho!
2006-11-30 09:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweety sounds to me like these women will stop at nothing to "suck their way up to the top" (if you get my drift) Since you are in a position of authority and the women that are approaching you work alongside with you it is extremely possible that they all want to sexually manipulate you. Be careful. These women are wicked and probably will stop at nothing to sleep with you and then blackmail you into promoting them. Yea, it's sleazy but some women will do anything to get that extra dollar. Pay them no mind, ignore there advances and if need be - report to Human Resource. This is borderline sexual harassment. It's disgusting. I just hope you can keep your penis in your pants and out of trouble.
2006-11-30 09:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're very good looking and they want to have an affair with you. You might also be very friendly. You have to understand something that is happening nowadays. I'm a woman and I know. Women are going crazy nowadays. Married women are cheating and most women are going out just looking for sex. Women aren't the way they were. Now they behave the way they say men behave. It's up to you what you want to do.They are married and they want to have an affair with you. It's up to you.
2006-11-30 09:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First evaluate yourself and your body language, if you are sending signals we are going to answer them. Some women have no respect for their spouses and will cheat, but done stoop to their level of desires and have to wear a bullet proof vest (to protect yourself from their husbands) Pissed off husbands are not new friends. Have a little respect and let these women know your not interested. Also dating someone at work is such a BAD idea for many reasons. Hope this helps!!
2006-11-30 09:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jim&Mindie S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie no matter how tempting it is DONT DO IT! TRUST ME! If these girls are married that is not a healthy siyuation to get into! It will bring on way too much DRAMA U DONT NEED! Not to mention U NEVER KNOW WHAT SCORNED PEOPLE WILL DO THESE DAYS! THESE HUSBANDS OF THESE WOMEN MAY TAKE IT TO AN EXTREME THAT U DONT NEED, THAT COULD LEAD TO MANY BAD THINGS FOR U OR THEM INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO JAIL TIME, BODILY INJURY, EVEN DEATH (IT CAN AND DOES HAPPEN) I HONESTLY KNOW OF A TRUE STORY OF SOMEONE WHO WAS CLOSE TO ME THAT ENDED UP WITH A COUPLE OF THESE THINGS HAPPENING!!
Please I am begging you dont risk it IT IS NOT WORTH IT FOR A LIL PLEASURE!
Christina
2006-11-30 09:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by sam_afl_mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one, You are way to old for a 19 year old. She could partically be your own daughter. Tell her thats maybe shes not getting the attention she wants and shes wanting it from you. Dont give it to her. tell them no there married happily you can ruin a marriage hacing affairs with married people, what if they have kids immagine the pain you will put them through.
2006-11-30 09:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget (ms. costa) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think they are just trying to get a reaction from you. it doesn't sound like they are serious, and what they are doing seems very immature. the only thing i would do is tell them to stop or you could tell their husbands but that may be weird.
2006-11-30 09:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by ndbt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them chicks to GET A LIFE!!! girlz like that either are having relationship issues or don't deserve they're husband. that 19-year-old is pretty sick though, i don't think her daddy taught her right.... but anywayz, i would just avoid them at all costs. they just want attention.
2006-11-30 09:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by nanerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is that you should leave those girls/women alone. if you don't leave them alone, then you might or will get into a lot of trouble. so just ignore them, and leave them alone. that's the best advice i could give you.
2006-11-30 09:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by JAZZiEEBOO♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rejoice that you are attracting them, but be honest with your feelings. Such as do you want to get involved with married women or not?
2006-11-30 09:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋