My other question is: is it prudent to ask a girl out who has not given off any signs of wanting a relationship.
It actually hurts to think about her. I feel like I need to go on anti depressants. I never thought of myself as being the depressive type but I feel like my mind is in emotional turmoil as my track record with women hasn't been good, and I'm pretty sure that she won't agree to a relationship. So the best thing, in my opinon, is to forget about her completely and move on with my life. But this is not easy especially since we work together.
2006-11-30 08:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by MrSandman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to ruin our relationship. I know she doesn't fancy me. This will make our position very awkward. If I can't have as girlfriend, I don't want to lose her as a friend.
2006-11-30 09:02:59 · update #1
So far good advice. Unfortunately, I'm in the pretty sad position where I don't have any close friends. I spend very long hours working which slices off my opportunities to make friends and I move around a lot, once every year (up and til recently) so basically I never really get to know anybody very well.
2006-11-30 09:07:10 · update #2
you are in love - go for it - is she married - if so maybe not - but if she's not - ask her out - you dont have to be a couple to go out and have fun togethre - go for it.....it might be that when you get to know her - you might not want her as bad as you do now - you wont know until you try, right. and as long as you job doesnt have strict policies about co-worker dating - i see no prob
2006-11-30 08:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is you are not going to get her out of your mind. at least not any time soon. we have all been hurt before in a relationship and it really sucks. whats worse is that you work with her. if you have some good friends this is the time that you'll need them. have a guys night out, eventually you will meet someone else. but the only true way to stop the hurt is TIME. i wish you luck.
2006-11-30 16:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by i am game 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can think of for you to do is to tell her how you feel in a nonwierdo way. make sure she knows that your not trying to pressure her into anything and that you just want her to know how you feel. if you dont wanna do that, try to just be friends with her outside of work. sometimes just being around the person you have feelings for is enough. if neither of those sound good enough, try to find someone else who will take your mind off her.
2006-11-30 16:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by jimbo 12606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋