My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost a year now & we are the best of friends. My boyfriend took care of himself the first couple weeks we met. But now he showers like once a week..if even that. Also..lately he hasn't been respecting our sex life. Sex is very intimate for me..I like lots of kissing and touching..and he just likes to have sex (lasts usually 5 minutes) Then he complains about being tired. This last time though..I was really stressed out and I wanted to make love to him to let go of some of the stress..so we were kissing & stuff..then he starts humping me kind of..and cu** and then I was like "are we going to have sex" and he was like "what! I just came it's going to be hard for me to get it up again now..and I have an appointment tomorow so I have to go to bed early" I got pissed off and vowed that I won't let him hit it again until he respects me. But I want sex so bad..what should I do about him!?
2006-11-30 08:47:31 · 21 answers · asked by Destiny Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to say thank you to everyone that has given me advice about this so far..I didn't know what else to do
2006-11-30 08:57:44 · update #1
it sounds to me like he aint doing the job , sexualy or emotionally . I would think long and hard about if you want to continue this relationship ..... quick sex is fine now and agin , but as your BF he needs to understand there is a time to be caring and affectionate , and he should be in tune with your needs at any givin time .... I really dont think he is going to be the guy for your needs in the long run .... sorry to hear it ..good luck
2006-11-30 08:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
eeww
first of all hes a pig if he only showers once a week
how can u even get close to him
and about the way hes treating uou
are u acting dumb? or are u simply just an idiot?
im sorry for telling u all this but how can u even be with him
i mean theres alot of guys out there why be with that jerk
he doesnt care about ur needs
and da worst part is that u say he only lasts 5 minutes!!!!!!!!
dum him
het da hell away from him
u will find onother guy that will trat you good
dont worry aboit that
good luck
2006-11-30 08:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you said that he only baths once a week if that much, He wouldn't get a sniff,a lick or a touch of my pussy. That is nasty and second he has always been that way he just looked nice enough to get you to be his girl and now he went back to his true self. Tell him how you feel and let him know that you want to be pleasured during you intimate moments. good luck because you really need it.
2006-11-30 08:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I divorced a man for the exact same reasons. Only I told him and he didn't care to change and only became more beligerent. So eventually I lost interest in trying and quit giving it up. I didn't wanna be just some hole he used to relieve himself. I am someone and the person I'm with should think that I'm someone too.
2006-11-30 08:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie....he's a loser. If you don't think he respects you he's not worth your time. I don't think the sex is that great if it only lasts for 5 min. You can do better and if you're that hard up for lovin' then get some toys or use your hands.
2006-11-30 08:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling he's reading you loud and clear. You are not respecting yourself and don't think he can't see that, because he does. To him all you want is sex and that's what he's going to give you. He doesn't fit the bill of your sexual needs go and find another.
He's respecting you for what he sees and he sees that all you want is sex.
He's a human not a machine.
2006-11-30 08:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, by talking with him about it , but dont do it in a demanding angry form, have an adult coversation with him about it. For all you know he may be stressed or maybe there is something bothering him with your relationship. Alot of times you will be able to work through it. But if it doesn't work consider moving on because eventually it can drag you down if your not getting your needs in a relationship.
2006-11-30 08:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by a h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he only showers once a week why would you want to get close to him. A guy cant take care of you if he cant take care of himself. Find someone else.
2006-11-30 08:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by blah 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to talk to him and let him know that you need to nut too and he need to take his time and make you do that and he need to shower that **** is just wrong you must love this guy to **** with him without showering you sound like a very nice girl but he need to take care of you too ma you need to seat him down and talk to him and it is a good idea not to give him some till you do talk and he understand where he coming from if he not do his job you could holla at me
2006-11-30 08:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by big ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key here. Who wants to be a round someone with bad hygeine....let's not even talk abou tthe sex.
Either is shapes up or dump his nasty @ss!!!
2006-11-30 08:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋