Today, he said he spends too much time on me, and he wants more time for himself. He is going out until 11 everynight without talking to me all day. He always says we are going to get married....and he said he wants to live each day like it's his last. I, however, was not included in his plans.....Hanging out with friends was the plan.
2006-11-30 08:38:48 · 23 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know how you feel if things remain this way get out while you can. If he loves you he will change his ways. Things will only get worse if you done deal with them now.
2006-11-30 08:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have not provided enough information in order for someone to accurately answer your question.
You have been together for 6 years. Is this attitude of his new? Are you living together? Did you hook up while you were young?
If this is new for him, try talking with him about it. 6 years is a long time. If you have been together that long, it must have been a very good relationship at some point. Otherwise, you wouldn't still be together.
Women as well as men need time with their friends. It forms their individuality. Although 2 people are in a relationship, they are still each their own individual person. If you hooked up while you were young, this may be his way of letting out pent up frustration of missing out on being with his friends. It could all be completely harmless. Maybe you should invest more of your time in yourself and start hanging out with your friends and establish a little independence from your boyfriend.
Talk with him about his actions and listen closely to his answers. If you feel you are no longer a priority to him or if you are not getting what you need out of the relationship, then you must make the decision whether or not to end it. However, it could all be harmless and maybe he just needs to have a little guy time.
Also, women tend to be a bit needy and clingy at times. If this is happening, it could be the cause of the problem.
Sorry that I can not pin point this one. I just didn't have enough facts about the situation. I hope I have helped.
2006-11-30 16:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leaving someone you've been with for so long can be really hard. Trust me, I know. I'm sure there are many other things involved in this relationship that are causing problems. Do you even still want to get married to him? Definately try to work things out before you just leave. But if this is something that just never seems to get better no matter how many times you guys talk about it, then maybe it is time to move on.
J
2006-11-30 16:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, after being together for 6 years u r supposed to fit in there somehwere at least and by the sounds of it ur not. Granted he needs time out with friends but not every night till 11.
2006-11-30 16:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on girl - that is a very clear message - Ouch, that has to hurt but focus on the fact that there is someone out there that will include you in his plans. He will realize later that his friend will not be the ones sitting with him enjoying the sunset later on in life!
2006-11-30 16:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that this is a right time to get rid from him but some girls loves jerks so much it si so impossible for them to dump some body who is a jerk i dont know what is ur type or kind but if u really thinking to dump him then u r right dont follow people let makes people follow you thats what i think about boy and girl relationship dont chase busses,cabs and boys if u miss it wait at the stand for the next one
2006-11-30 16:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by dashing_afridi_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about time you broke up with him. He can include his friends in his plans, but not you? How is that going to work?
2006-11-30 16:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you was a guy, the women would accuse you of being jealous. So, who knows. And I would say, that about 90% of the answers given by women on this section is "Leave him", no matter what the question is.
2006-11-30 16:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.Its time.In a good relationship,,you spend your free time together most of the time & you should have fun together & feel comfortable with each other.After you dump him,,be sure that he sees you happy with someone else.lol
2006-11-30 16:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should move on. His plans do not include you.
Sorry.
Live each day like his last? Who are you Bloody Mary?
Find some one better.
2006-11-30 16:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋