well i have dated this same guy for 4 years on and off.and he's cheated on me and i keep going back because i really love him.It has now been 2 weeks that we have been going out again and im not sure if i should stay with him or not becauzse of his cheating problem.(he has cheated on almost every girl hes been with...)
2006-11-30 07:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem isnt him, it's you. Ask yourself why you love someone who constantly cheats on you and other women.
2006-11-30 07:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an idiot. OF COURSE HE'S CHEATING ON YOU! You allow him to do exactly what he wants, with no repercussions from you. I'd cheat on you too if you let me, AND you kept taking me back. I bet you also pay for your dinner when you guys go out, too, right? ROFL It is obvious that you are insecure and have little or no self-esteem. If you were really sick of being treated like a dumb-***, you would let him go and you'd find a man (notice I said MAN and not a boy) that would be capable of treating you with respect. People will do to you EXACTLY what you allow them to. Grow up, and stop complaining about your problems when your bad judgment is the reason that you have them in the first place. It's not brain surgery. LOL
2006-11-30 08:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by DONTSTARTNONE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you just answered your own question when you said, "he cheated on almost every girl he's been with." He isn't going to change and if he does it's going to take time and a lot of patience from you. Is it really worth it? I personally wouldn't put up with it. Good luck with your choice.
2006-11-30 07:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mad??? Do u not have any self esteem or self respect. If he has cheated on you numerous times before and gotten away with it, don't you think he will keep on doing it??? You should love yourself more and find a boyfriend that will give you the love and respect you deserve!
2006-11-30 07:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Danru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its allways hard to leave someone you love but its for the best if he is cheating on you.once a cheater allways a cheater
2006-11-30 07:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not respect you or the relationship if he cheats on you. He is not happy with you if he cheats. Let him go!
2006-11-30 07:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. You shouldn't trust him. If he has hurt you before he will do it again. You should leave him for good and stay away this time.
2006-11-30 07:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you accepted his problem because you keep going back to him, so whats the problem?
if you dont accept his problem then you would of been smart and not have gotten back together with him!
2006-11-30 07:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a break from him and try dating some other guys and see how it goes.
2006-11-30 07:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by jenniferyoung1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur stooopid, just leave and find somebody who won't cheat... there are plenty of other people to love dum dum
2006-11-30 07:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋