I have been dating a nice girl for almost 2 months now. We get along fine but we have not made love yet. This makes me both hurt and mad. I take great offense to this. We will sleep in same bed sometimes but never do anything. She keeps saying to wait. Wait, wait,wait!!
I can't keep waiting. I got so mad last night that I shot my sperm in her face and hair while she was sleeping. She woke up and was really upset. I tried to calm her down but she kicked me out. How can I apologize for doing this when she won't answer the phone or return my messages?
2006-11-30 07:37:12 · 34 answers · asked by Jesus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are u crazy ?
do u hit her for sex
if she dont want sex then its her right to accept or refuse
look try ti talk to her about that
talk to her friends
try to purchase to her a present in christmas she loves
2006-11-30 07:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manny, what the hell is wrong with you?!?!? now that is just disgusting and very disrespectful of you. Your girl wants to wait and you want to try and make her feel bad cause the 2 of you aren't having sex and you have only been together for 2 months. You are lucky that she is even letting you in her bed at all after just 2 months. The key word here is nice girl. If you wanted someone that you can just have sex with at the drop of a dime then you should have found someone else to date. What is the rush to have sex anyway? Just cause she invites you to stay over doesn't mean that she wants to have sex. She probably just likes to cuddle and be affectionate. It's sad because you probably have ruined a great relationship with her. She wouldn't be out of line if she didn't take you back.
2006-11-30 07:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u were an idiot for doing that and second of all if the girl wants to wait LET HER WAIT! if you really love her, then u will respect her decision. that wasn't a wise move. maybe u don't really want to be with her, maybe u do. either way u have to decide. if u do want to be with her, write her a poem or a letter and be very sincere buy some flowers(roses if she likes them) and bring the letter and flowers to her house, don't stay just give them to her and say call me when you are ready to talk. she might not want to talk to you right then so give her her space. and don't keep calling let her know that you care by giving her a letter explaining where you are coming from(point of view about the situation) and she'll come around. she can't not talk to u forever, she'll give in sometime. hope this is helpful :)
2006-11-30 07:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, let me get this straight, out of frustration over her unwillingness to have sex with you, you jerk off in her face while she's sleeping. And now, you're wondering how to make this up to her?
You're lucky to not be charged with sexual assault, or at the very least, a restraining order! Maybe she didn't want to make love because she didn't feel 100% safe to share that part of her life with you, and sad to say, the next guy that comes into her life is gonna have to help her overcome not only that, but also the fear of waking up with sperm in her face!
It's over. Next time, try respecting a woman's wishes, and for God's sake, have a little self-control.
2006-11-30 07:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers, nice ones! Don't call her over and over, it starts to look like stalking. Wait a week, send the flowers and a nice I'm sorry card telling her you made a huge mistake, had a "wet dream" and please "lets talk". Then wait and see what happens. Is she waiting for marriage or a commitment from you to have sex? Is she still a virgin? Does she find you attractive or just think of you as a really good friend? Good luck!
2006-11-30 07:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by flymeawayfromhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you have been dating a girl for 2 months does not mean she should by making love to you right away. every girl is different and she is obviously not ready. Why would you ever shoot that stuff in her face and hair? That is just plain mean, childish, disgusting, etc. I hope you feel ashamed for what you did. There isn't anything you could do. you don't want to mail her a letter and be too stalkerish. just leave it in a voicemail that you are sorry and don't expect to ever be with her again. If for whatever reason, she decides to go back with you... she is not thinking straight. and you need to better control your emotions. just shoot it on yourself next time. then see how u would feel
2006-11-30 07:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first. why would you even do that to begin with. thats just kinda sick and wrong. you messed up it will take her a while to forgive you or even talk to you. i messed up with someone i liked and it took her bout a few weeks for her to even answer my calls let alone talk to me ( it wasnt over something sexual, it was a disagreement that went a little too far). the best thing you can do is wait it out. if she really likes you she will forgive you but her trust in you will be broken alot. you have to show her how sorry you are and try and gain her trust back. most importantly though, never do anythign like that again unless she wants too.
2006-11-30 07:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur disgusting.
sorry just had to say that YOU NYMPHO ****!
back to ur question...
well buy her a dozzen of flowers have it delivered to her incase she doesnt open for u , a box of chocolate if she can eat it ofcourse.. text her a love poem with her name from a different number of telephone and keep it with u until she responds..
know that uve been a very horrible person and ur awful..and she has every reason to dump u..so just be hopeful...
ull be damn lucky if she takes u back...
u shoulve wait.. and that wouldve made her come to u instead of u begging like a h0rnydog...disgusting animal!instead of being mad u fool u shouldve been patient... 2 months r nothing! and i thought u said a nice girl not a zluttygirl!
next time find urself a cheap girl that suits u!
2006-11-30 07:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's perspective...that was disgusting. You will be really lucky if she ever talks to you. When a woman wants to WAIT it means that they want the relationship to be better than it would be if you did "make love" because it wouldn't be about when your gettin some it would just be about you and her.
2006-11-30 07:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally nasty and gross. I would have thrown you out too. How dare you get angry at someone that doesn't want to have sex yet. If you dont like it find another girl. I hope she never takes your call so you learn a lesson. What a nasty thing to do.
2006-11-30 07:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally unexeptable. If you love her, you would wait. When you did that it showed her you dont care. Its going to be hard trying to get her back but show her that your sorry by more than just saying it. And try something other than sex, like oral sex or masterbating.
2006-11-30 07:43:53 · answer #11 · answered by *Me* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋