Should i give a chrismas card to a girl i like who doesn't know me?

Question

... People said no start a conversation with her, but i feel embarrassed and go red when im near her. Also if i was to start a conversation how would i do it, and start it?

Answer 1

I don't know

Answer 2

Best way for someone your age (I apologize if otherwise) would be to have something planned, something fun to do with your friends. Go to NYC to see the tree or something like that, and leave it as more of an open invitation. Just kinda throw it in there while you are talking to her. "oh, hey, my friends and I are going to ......, and there should be quite a few people. If you would like to go, we are going on this day, around this time. Chances are, she will give you a "um, I don't know. I'll have to see what I am doing" Give it a couple days, just before your x-mas break, give her a christmas card (just a friendly kind of card, something you would send a friend), and make sure to ask her if she would still like to go wherever it is you would do around the holidays in the card with you phone number. She can't be rude, by not calling you, you already gave her an open invite, and you need to know if she is going. Good luck

Answer 3

NO. DO YOU LIKE GETTING MAIL OR ANYTHING ELSE FROM PEOPLE YOU DO NOT KNOW. On the back side of your question the holidays are an easy way to start a conversation. YOU'RE GOING TO GET SOME REALLY GOOD ADVISE HERE... (1.) I'm so behind on my Chistmas shopping.COULD YOU HELP ME. WHAT DO YOU GET FOR A SIXTEEN OLD NIECE? (2.) I REALLY need a womans opion on this. I was going to on to number three, four, five Start with the basics Have a happy holiday.

Answer 4

absolutely! who cares what people think, it is your life.
Make sure she celebrates Christmas, and write some something from your heart that is funny and mysterious, leave out any mushy or wussy things you would like to say. BE A MAN.

Know this, if you do creep her out who cares there are plenty of other women.

If you want to start a conversation you walk right up to her and you say hello. she will say hello back.
If she asks you why you turn red you tell her in a funny way that it is because you are embarrassed FOR HER..tell her it is obvious that she likes you and is too shy to be the first one to say hello.

Answer 5

NO!!! Big fat no on the x-mas card!!!!!!!! If I were that girl, I would think you were REALLY weird if you if you just gave me a Christmas card out of no where. If you know her friends, ask one of them to organize a big hangout and to invite her and some of her other girlfriends you might know. Have someone introduce you to her, like “oh, sally! I don’t think you know bob! We go to school together...” or something like that, about getting red….don’t know what to tell ya. Just ask her if she’s having fun. And carry on the conversation from there. Maybe you should be talking to her along with her and some of y’alls friends. But don’t be looking at anything but her eyes, ok?

Answer 6

Awww! That would be so sweet! I definatly like the card idea! In the card you can say something poetic like "I've seen your smile from a distant place...it seems this look, never really leaves your face. I'm nervous around you, so I've never said Hi....I hope we can talk more, I hope you'll let me try. I not the most outgoing, I sometimes make mistakes, but I really want to ask you out and I'll do whatever it takes."

See? There ya go!

Answer 7

you could do both, the card can start the conversation, she will think its really sweet that some one she may not know has noticed her and has gone to the trouble of giving something as little as a card.

you could say " hey i know you don't really know me but i wanted to give you this" and then hand her the card. and am sure she will appreciate it!


if not just giving the cards is fine too, she will still notice you, and appreciate the gesture.

Answer 8

You should definitaly talk to her first. If you just send her a Christmas card (before you talk) she'll just be like "Ugh, who's this?" and become really confused. To start a conversation you could say somthing like "Hey ___________, how's it going?" Then just eventually let her know how you feel about her. If you want to ask her out or anything, you should get to know her and let he get to know you before you do! I agree with several answers above too! There are some good ones!

Answer 9

i say yes. Send it to her and tell her in the card how you've noticed her lately and how you think she is beautiful. If she gives a cold thank you she is not interested, if she gives a thank and sort of like a slight touch that mean she is sweet but she is not interested, if she looks at you in the eyes and tells you how sweet you are and thank you while staying a bit longer to see if you spark up conversation then she might be interested. Good luck!

Answer 10

Ok you can give a girl a card just in a friendly manner whether she knows you or not.......girls like that kinda stuff.....just like the little things.......If you want to start a conversation with her try doing it when none of her freinds are around....it'll be easier and if you would want to start out with something a little smaller.....try getting her email address or messenger id.......it'll definitely make it easier for you.

Answer 11

No, don't do that, she will show all her friends the Christmas card you got her, and tell everyone hey do you know this kid, he gave me a card, you will only bring trouble upon your self if you do, so go talk to her, walk by her in the hall, and just talk to her, figure it out, you can never play the game if you sit on the bench!