Has your relation with your girl/man affected because of his/her friends?
2006-11-30 07:27:54 · 22 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever felt that your man/girl ignores you completely in front of his/her friends? What do you do in that case?
2006-11-30 07:31:50 · update #1
Yes! I dumped my ex (this was about 4 months ago) because of his friends; they were irritating jocks that ate like pigs, and always showed up uninvited at his house - and mine! They teased me a lot, which I was fine with at first, but after a week or so it began to seem really immature and irritating. For example, they'd ask me what color my underwear was, or if they could dye my hair blue. And the reason I dumped the guy; he never defended me! I went so far as to threated to poison a guys food, but there was nothing I could do - they knew I wasn't serious. Plus, when they were around, he'd act nearly as bad as them to show off, because he felt he had to act "macho" - not the perfect guy by any means.
2006-11-30 07:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by CherryPie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What I do, regardless of a pal that has no thought i'm gay, whilst there is assorted female buddy drama is only remind myself that i'm removed from the area and not questioning with the little head. As to using gay as a derogatory term, i could factor out that there are assorted swear words they are able to apply. whilst I hate advocating violence, factor out that the subsequent time they use the term inappropriately, they're going to start up bobbing up bruises. Or prepare my mom's trick; she'll positioned her fist on my nostril and easily ask "definite? You have been asserting?" Which shows that if i do no longer make sparkling the assertion, i circulate to get a affected person's eye view of the emergency room. the two are fairly useful at putting forward that it is rude to apply particular words in one in all those way. I used a private term for "fool." in front of a pal who honestly replaced into that factor era. The bruise from his fist and the autumn made it look like i could been tattooed. I found out something; i'm allowed to think of issues, and would shop my frickin' mouth close. D
2016-10-13 11:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Not in my current relationship, but in previous ones. My ex-boyfriend cared more about his friends than he did about me.
I could be laying in the street bleeding to death and his best friend could be across the street with a friggin' hangnail. He would have left me to go get his friend some nail clippers.
We were going out to dinner one night to celebrate our 2nd anniversary. We were dressed up and going to a nice restuarant. He saw one of his friends walking down the road and he stopped the car and started chatting with him. He told his friend we were going out for dinner and HE ASKED HIM IF HE'D LIKE TO COME ALONG!! UGH!Fortunately, his friend was polite enough to turn down the invitation.
2006-11-30 07:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by amylynn25 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's inevitable to at least have some difficulty with your partner's friends. In the past I have ended relationships because of their friends and because they were too dependent on their friends.
2006-11-30 07:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eh.... My X had some JACKED UP friends... OMG... they would KIDNAP him and drive him 300 miles away and then make him lie about it... YEA RIGHT>. I knew better. he went willingly, but thats the story that he told me. IM NOT STUPID!!!! So yea... things didnt work out... But we are good friends now, and thats better. He later realized that those specific friends were trying to ruin all of his relationships and has since STOPPED being friends with those morons. But o well..
2006-11-30 07:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, inevitably outsiders can influence/affect a relationship, but no one should be able to break up two people who really love each other.
2006-11-30 07:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was with this guy before i married my hubby and his friends came over nightly i mean several of them and they hung out in the garage building race cars .....and a few got sick of hanging out with him so they come in the house and hung out with me......all innocent of course...just played cards, and now that him and i are not together i still miss some of his(my) friends....but yes some of them were very annoying and turned out to be a problem
2006-11-30 07:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah, she cheated on me with her "best guy friend" metally and physically for 7 years!!! and did a damn good job of hiding it.... she broke up with me after nine years... and now she is ******** this guy... i want to give him a christmas present.... a pair of concrete shoes at the bottom of the lake...
2006-11-30 07:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One of my x boyfriends had friends that I didnt like.They were stupid,,into stealing & hard drugs.I evenually sent him steppin'.He wasnt much better than his friends.
2006-11-30 07:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend's friends. My boyfriend and I got in a fight, and his buddies were always over. They would call me names, wouldn't let me talk to them. We ended up breaking up, they are a**holes.
2006-11-30 07:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋