Also a person i've fallen out with is gonna be there and it's from 1 to 7...i think it's a bit to long and i'm not sure weather i should go or not...wat would you do?!
2006-11-30 06:52:50 · 17 answers · asked by question guy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
yea but i kind of like them and kind of don't...i'm usually excited about going to someone's party but i've just got this feeling in me that i don't want to go for some reason
2006-11-30 07:33:04 · update #1
You say, "Thank you for inviting me. I regret I cannot attend."
That's all that's necessary. Please do NOT provide any made up excuses. All that is necessary is a reply. Either Yes, thank you or no, thank you. No reasons necessary. Do NOT provide one. If you're wishy washy about it, why not stop being so anti-social, put on something nice, and go for a couple hours. You might actually have a good time if you let yourself. But, do NOT go if you're going to be a wet blanket. Either way - you need to RSVP.
2006-11-30 06:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you don't like them--did you hear something about them (that may not be true), did they actually wrong you in some way, or you just don't know them very well? Chances are they want to make peace with you, get to know you, or like you, at least enough to ask you. Go for a bit, and if you feel uncomfortable then leave. 1 to 7 is a long party, chances are not everyone is going to stay the whole time anyways.
About your friend you've fallen out with, either go and make nice, or just keep things as they are. I had a situation like that recently, and I contacted the friend first so that she knew I was willing to be cordial, and she didn't respond but she was cool when I saw her. But if you just plain don't want to go because you don't like her and the other person will be there then just be totally honest with her and tell her why. It's their birthday, they have a right to know.
2006-11-30 07:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 10:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not this persons friend, then I'm wondering why he invited you in the first place? Don't be rude, just be civil. Say something along the lines of "Thank you for your invitation but unfortunately I can't come because I already have plans that day." If you don't like him, then there's no reason to go and be fake about.
2006-11-30 07:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you'll be uncomfortable then don't go...nothing wrong with politely declining an invitation
if you want to go then maybe bring the host a small gift and thank them for the invite but let them know you won't be able to stay very long....that gives you an out if you start to feel uncomfortable
2006-11-30 07:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by SNAP! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So dont go. Im sure they were just trying to be nice inviting you.
2006-11-30 07:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel socially trapped into this party, do a 30-minute drop-by, greet everyone, then say goodbye to the host & leave.
It works for me.
2006-11-30 07:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could just say that you already have other plans if you think you don't want to go, or you could just drop by for an hour or two.
2006-11-30 08:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow you feelings/intuition, don't go. Don't force yourself to do something you don't like doing. Honor your inner self.
2006-11-30 12:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like the person, then don't go!! Put since they had the decency to invite you, you should at least tell them you can't make it, tell them something suddenly came up!!
2006-11-30 06:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by CaReBeAr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋