baby daddy drama
2006-11-30 06:45:57 · 32 answers · asked by Ressey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Take him to court. He has to pay child support.
2006-11-30 06:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you should've protected yourself from this situation by using birth control. Second, if he doesn't take any responsibility now, he never will so now you have to force him to do so. If you are recieving some sort of welfare then you can file for benefits for the baby and you have to name him as the father. I would also suggest a paternity test after the baby is born so it is documented fact that he is the father. The system will take care of it from here. You will recieve benefits no matter what but he will have to pay them back to the state. This happened to my uncle.
If you are not recieving any welfare I suggest taking good care of yourself. Don't worry about him. After the baby is born, get a paternity test and then you have proof he is the father. Then get a good lawyer and have them file for child support for the baby. Make him pay for at least half of the paternity test and have his payments set up so they go through the court system.
You will not be able to count on him to support you or help you out. He is a deadbeat. It is a shame. This child did not ask to be brought into this world to a parent like that. From this day on, you need to make sure you use birth control and keep yourself safe.
Best wishes to you.
2006-11-30 06:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That is one heck of a situation. I know from experience that trying to force him to is not the way to go about it. I mean, I may be gay, but I help people all the time. I don't know the particualr situation, but he seems kinda like a loser anyway. Not the sort you'd want around your child. My father was a single parent, and my mom had virtually nothing to do with us. My brother and I turned out just fine, both of us agree that we are better off than we would have been had she taken interest in our lives. Write me an email or IM me on Yahoo and we can talk more. Interaction is so helpful. Just know that whatever happens, you have people, even if you don't know us, behind you lending you our strength whenever you need it.
2006-11-30 06:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by James L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lawd have mercy ever heard of birth control or condoms or just not having sex at all. You know i find alot of you girls getting pregnant because they think the will have one big happy family till the man runs to another woman and thats exactly what he is doing. Best you can do is get child support and prepare to be a single mother and if you don't want to have no more kids get your tubes tied! I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo glad not to have this situation of "baby daddy drama" bull sh!t.
2006-12-03 16:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I'm just going to answer and try not to be sensitive about the subject, you can do a few things:
1. have an abortion
2. give the baby up for adoption
3. keep the baby and sue for child support. Then hope that babydaddy isn't a deadbeat. But already, he sounds like one.
He's not going to change his mind, sweetie. Looks like you should have used protection when you messed with this one. Sorry, and good luck.
2006-11-30 06:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as the baby is born, have a DNA try completed. If he does not choose to cooperate, take him to courtroom and get the opt to reserve one, alongside with an order for baby help if he's the daddy in case you're at it. yet understand that a deadbeat is a deadbeat. whether the baby is his, he in all hazard nonetheless won't take duty for it no rely what a choose or absolutely everyone else tells him.
2016-10-04 13:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either know that you'll be raising the child alone or have an abortion or give the baby up for adoption.
You might be able to get court ordered child support but if they don't want to pay they rarely will.
2006-11-30 07:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie i am so sorry. Demand that he takes responsibility for his actions, then make him take a paternity test and pay child support. I hope you and your baby have a fab life, without the pathetic excuse for a father- I'm sure you can do better than him.
2006-11-30 06:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to a lawyer, and take him to court. He has to take responsability for his child. call a lawyer and get a free consultation. Or also get ahold of someone at ors. I have the utah site, I am sure they can help you in the right direction.
http://www.ors.utah.gov/
2006-11-30 06:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider giving up the baby for adoption. If that's not an option for you, you can make him take a paternity test and get support from him whether he likes it or not.
2006-11-30 06:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pursue him through the courts for child support and name the child after you...and never let him near you again. I am sorry though. What a little weeny boy!
2006-11-30 06:48:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋