What should you do if you are pregnat and your babies daddy doesnt want to take responsibilty?

Question

Baby daddy drama

Answer 1

I checked out all the answers people sent you and am sorry to say most of them are just plain rude telling you about using condoms and stop being a hoe.Thats nonsense i dont understand why they are already jumping to conclusions.I am in the same situation as you and trust me it aint easy.My bf and i had decided to have a baby togethr and he asked me to go off the pill which i did and immediately got pg.Unfortunately 2 months down the line we broke up.
Now am alone and still thrilled about the baby cuz thats whats keeping me going.He asks about the baby and me but i know for certain he aint gonna offer any child support and i have accepted the situation.I have a job and i will support myself.Where i come from the issue of child support isnt as easy as the U.S so i had rather not waste my energy.I need it for carrying this baby.

So my dear just take it easy and dont bother with the guy he isnt worth it.He might wonna come back when he sees the beautiful baby but then thats gonna be a bit too late.If you need financial support then go ahead and fight for child support but meanwhile you dont need to stress out.Stress affects the baby.

Women are strong and we survive almost everything so not to worry.Keep praying and everything will turn out right.

Will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 2

Once the baby is born, have a DNA test done. If he doesn't want to cooperate, take him to court and get the judge to order one, along with an order for child support if he is the father while you're at it.

But keep in mind that a deadbeat is a deadbeat. Even if the kid is his, he probably still won't take responsibility for it no matter what a judge or anyone else tells him.

Answer 3

it take a man to be a father. but sometimes it takes time for them to come around. it may be a whole different story when the baby is born. and then it may take some time after that. my baby daddy didnt really have that much to do with my daughter until she was 3 months old(the first time he was left alone with her) thats all it takes (sometimes)