ok, so theres this guy at my school and we used to go out. he says he still has feelings for me and he's not afraid to show it. the only thing is he's dating this other girl and i feel really guilty about it. he doesn't seem totally happy in his current relationship but he's such a flirt with me and it makes me feel really bad for his gf. are his feelings for me for real or is he just being an a**, and why do guys do that, anyway?
2006-11-30 06:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by vera lynn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either one is a possibility, but if he's willing to go around behind his present girlfriend's back, then it's 99% certain that he will do the same to you. Stay Away from this guy. He's trouble.
2006-11-30 06:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by rockhoundguide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being an ***hole. If I truly cared about a girl, then I'm not gonna be in a relationship with any other girl. Sorry if that comes off a little hostile, but I've known some pretty shady guys, and this sounds like something one of them would do. What it seems to me, is he would rather be with you than his current girlfriend, and if you don't work out, he still has her as a backup. I'm not saying the guy is a doushe (like the guys I know), I'm just saying be very careful. He's just as likely to do the same thing to you as he's done with her.
I would suggest telling his current girlfriend. If he still seems to have feelings for you (and trust me, if he doesn't, you'll know pretty quickly), then give him some of your time. Just remember; he has to *earn* your trust, don't just give it to him.
2006-11-30 06:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just playing around and loving the game, like kids in a candy store. They're not intending to get serious any time soon and know that they still have years yet for plenty of fun.
2006-11-30 06:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each so often we permit human beings impression what we do. yet once you had rather enjoyed this guy, i don't think of that the "crap" which you acquire might have made you ruin up with him. you're clever to realize which you probably basically prefer him back on account which you think of which you would be able to not have him (human nature). yet you're nonetheless thinking, so as that would desire to permit you recognize to a minimum of in the mean time, permit it pass.
2016-12-17 19:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by rivalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tell him that if he has feelings for you and he wants to pursue them then he needs to break up with his girlfriend. Did the thought ever cross your mind that he is feeding you a load of crap just to get his way with you? It is called having your cake and eating it too.
2006-11-30 06:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum, he needs to break it off with his current girlfriend or he will loose you for good. See what his reaction is, if he doesn't do a thing about it, just let it go, he's not worth it.
2006-11-30 06:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then I would ignore him and force him to make a decision one way or the other
2006-11-30 06:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea if he wanted to be with you, he would, end of story. Kind of a dick thing to do on his part, but hey when your goodlooking and people like you, you can play games like that if you want.
2006-11-30 06:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get action from more than one girl. If you want to mess around with him anyway...go for it.
2006-11-30 06:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to call it off with her and you'll go from there. Until then stay away.
2006-11-30 06:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by drockfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋