How do you stop cheating ... i have cheated on every boyfriend ive had and not just kissing ... but sexually ? i swear its addictive how do i stop ... since being the only child im use to attention so when i dont get any attention i tend to cheat but not just then any time someone (any of my ex's) tries making a move i let it happen how do i stop this whole cheating thing ???
2006-11-30 06:41:48 · 24 answers · asked by baller13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seek help.
There are numerous groups for people in your position.
Contact your local community mental health center.
They can provide you with sliding scale resources.
Oh, and don't listen to the yahoos who call you names here.
2006-11-30 06:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bricks 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to look at the reasons you might be cheating,
Are you happy with your boyfriend? Or maybe jusy unhappy at the time the "event" occurs?
Are you seeking the thrill of initial love?
Perhaps you are not over your exes?
Do you have trouble saying no?
Maybe you are just not getting the attention that you need.
The right man may make a difference, or if your cheating dosen't bother you, just continue on if that is what you want to do.
2006-12-02 11:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by slightlyunsettled 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's because you're very immature. Get attention in other ways. Volunteer at the pediatric AIDS unit (might make you rethink your sexual escapades.) If that's too heavy, get attention by doing some GOOD in the world- start a Christmas food or toy drive. Participate in charity events. Help people. When you get satisfaction from what you do, rather than who you do, you'll become a much better person.
www.charityguide.org
www.volunteermatch,org
2006-11-30 06:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You really do have a problem. I don't know you at all but I think this stems from some where in your life maybe when you was young. You were exposed to some type of behavior that you have witnessed in the past from someone that you know. Maybe you grow up with sexual fantasies that you are now acting out because its in your spirit.
you should fix this problem so your kids in the future don't turn out to be just like you.
2006-11-30 06:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see, you begin by growing up. This behavior is childlike and is going to end up causing you a great deal of pain. You'll end up losing the love of your life over your selfish ways and it'll crush you like something you've never seen before. I would suggest getting into therapy immediately before it wrecks your life. The other option is waiting until gravity sets in and your looks fail you. At that point and time, no one is going to want to sleep with you and your problem will be solved! Which solution seems easier for to you handle?
2006-11-30 06:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps as you mature you will learn to feel compassion for others. Stop dating unless you are upfront with your limitations. One day you may find someone that you don't want to cheat on. Maybe you haven't really liked any of these guys. (be careful, sometimes what goes around comes around)
To stop an action you merely don't do it. If you really wanted to stop cheating you just wouldn't cheat.
2006-11-30 06:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to replace your urges to cheat and have sex with something else, go shopping or something. And dont hang around your ex's anymore. Try to keep your self far away from the situation as possible. Only allow yourself to hang out with your man and if your around other guys or ex's make sure there are other people there too.
2006-11-30 06:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by ELW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get cheated on for the rest of your life if you keep this up. You're young probably and getting it out of your system (you've got a problem by the way)now, and then when you're older and in love with someone and find that you could never cheat on him, BAM! He cheats on you. What goes around, comes around.
2006-11-30 06:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey that is a choice u have to make n stick to. there is no magic pill, cream or anything else..obviously u either dient love them, or get what u needed from them or it could be something deeper like u have issues. like lettin someone get close to u, or thinkin u deserve chaos or something. u need to figure it out if u want to be in a relationship that will last n possible go somewhere.
2006-11-30 06:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-30 07:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋