if a guy invites a girl back to his place more than once (4 times) to stay the nite, but every time she wont do more than just kissing, even though the guy tries all the moves,if the guy just wanted sex would he not bother anymore?
if he keeps on wanting to meet up is he really interested?
2006-11-30 06:32:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-11-30 06:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Blade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-30 06:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you reading so much into things you've only been with him on 4 occasions and already you're worried that he just wants sex ofcourse he wants sex if he finds you attractive enough to bring you out in the first place did you think he just wanted to be friends. Come on get a grip on yourself these are your issues not his its still you decision when or if you have sex with him.
2006-11-30 12:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy keeps on insisting that they do more that kiss then he does not sound like a very honourable guy, however, if the girl keeps to her guns and does not give in too easily then he will gain respect for her and she will find out what he wants.
Don't do anything you don't want, if he sticks around then he's a keeper, if not then you've found out his true colours : )
2006-11-30 06:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he going to keep trying the fact that she go to his house gives him hope that something more than kissing will be happening. Some guys like the challenge what is it going to take to get her but once he gets her its hard to say whether or not he will remain more than likely he wont
2006-11-30 06:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the guy, maybe he is trying to show you that he is not the "typical" guy, but once he'd have had you, he can still dump you. Or he is really interested and wants to prove to you that he's willing to wait for you. I think you should confront him and ask him directly.
2006-11-30 06:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's trying so much he probably isn't just after sex, he probably wants a relationship. Lets hope he's a good one and that if you do ever give him a night to remember, he treats you well and you last a long time.
Good luck.
2006-11-30 06:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's more interested in your body =)
but why would a girl stay at a guys house 4 times...if she wasn't going to let him have sex with her
*confused*
2006-11-30 06:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by kimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... he might still want sex... sometimes playing hard to get makes him want it more. I hope he is taking you out to do special things sometimes rather than just asking you to his house to spend the night.
2006-11-30 06:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I think you'll find out sooner or later whether he just wants to sleep with you or whether he genuinely likes you.
2006-11-30 06:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he tried all moves .he is interested in sex
2006-11-30 06:36:27 · answer #11 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋